all right let's do this
ask me the most difficult questions
about lemon you can think of that an
honest in my network the most difficult
or whatever you think okay don't ask me
like okay I just aged difficult right
yes sir very good I was writing this
down as well I just be one brother to
write this down yes sir
sinter I'm going to yes sir yeah okay
okay good yes
oh yeah oh okay but give me a specific
question that question might ask so we
can answer it yes sir sect
how about that mod you right okay just
put the bullet point we remember what
came before God
did what okay
okay good okay you've got that hunt was
evolution sisters no questions at all on
top of you just have all the answers
it's good yeah wisely still septage
slavery to slum yeah
yes sir what about the suffering of
animals humans is that tough question
okay fine whatever it's fine yes sir
you're suffering yes sir now but there's
that tough question because you don't
want to be burp in the Hellfire right
that's what you do me tough questions
how could you prove revelation came to
us innocent how can you prove that I
exist that's not really tough but okay
so essentially how do you know this is
the truth that will take you to paradise
right great yes sir
okay yes sir okay but so put that is a
different page you're like Muslim
question but yes sir
good yes thank you finally sister that
doesn't know something go that way how
can you believe what you get or how can
you where it said that that mutt how do
you prove the existence of Allah right
tough tough tough question yes sister
change good
okay yes yeah okay
actually go put that one possibly yeah
there you go the one who apostatize is
stoning to good stuff
okay but you heard that question that's
a good question
so if someone disobeys a lot for 50
years what isn't a lot to torture them
for 50 years they disappeared about 450
years only why did they get the Eternity
in the Hellfire everyone see the
question one more time someone disobey
the light it is 50 years of sins he
should get 50 years of hellfire I mean
but in the worst case a hundred years of
hellfire why does he get eternity in the
Hellfire brilliant question you should
get some kind of a price good question
and yes sir where did it come in error
okay fine larger than operate yes
nobody stay in Calgary permanent fight
anything else anything tough yes sister
a lot of what questions but okay don't
write about hundreds in the notes
what's coming up okay yes sir you have
two options you can be right beside and
see what happens to her so all right
great but now you want me to answer all
these questions right now that the some
job that I am green actually you ask all
the tough questions and guess what has
to answer that later you do so you're
gonna answer these questions now you're
gonna answer these questions after you
know a lot of techniques so it won't be
that difficult trust me show me and if
you want me to prove it to you I can ask
you some of them right now
and we'll see how long it takes us to
answer them and then we're gonna go
through some of the techniques and
you'll see that it takes you a lot it's
a lot easier to answer after you know
some of the technique but okay let's go
forward now so these were all the
excuses why or are things that would
stop someone from becoming a mister or
stop you from being an effective daddy
I'm bringing from the place now and
they're not just limited to those five
on the board they're probably a lot more
you know it's like looking going over
there you know sit down the street Dawa
if you read it it's quite
self-explanatory I'm mostly involved I'm
concerned with trying to get us the book
talk about things that mean we need
skill that we need for the next week or
two or maybe the rest of our lives so I
don't want to you know sit down I mean
obviously who said that already
I'm gonna show you when I skip a page
it's not a big deal so think I've
skipped my skip where it discussed the
point number one we did for number two
self-explanatory that's why I skipped it
point number three self-explanatory so
that's why when I skip a page you can
trust that each other that's not a big
deal but if you insist put your hand up
so why don't you skip that one
for example there's one here because if
they're here an argument rephrase it say
it back to them so this is one of the
techniques when someone asks you a
question
they keep discussing religion with you
you explain something to them they say
the same thing over and over and over
again
well that's because you died for our
sins and that's why this doesn't matter
so you explain you talk look but Jesus
died for sin and that's why you explain
again it's been done what they're really
telling you is I don't think you heard
me
so they're gonna keep repeating it any
time not just in Taiwan anything in life
your child your friend keeps repeating
the same thing over and over to you
they're keep repeating it to because
they don't think you heard them so the
way to get them to stop repeating it is
to write their rephrase it to say
Baptist let me see if I understand you
correctly you're saying that because he
died for our sins this is enough so now
they feel oh they hurt me now they feel
comfortable now they stop repeating the
article so that's what that was about
you know that would be the Internet
that's what I'm destroying you the paper
I skip through so it's saying you know
stick to the point meaning you know just
throwing around the pieces of
information and just copying and pasting
from other sides of it and then plugging
it into the chat or whatever the email
you know the rules are the same rules of
you start with toe Heath you build on
the five pillars think like that you
know you give them further
you know links for further reading as a
general rule men try to communicate with
men and women try to communicate with
women because you don't want to give the
shape on an avenue and so many times
you'll get emails or calls and someone
will say I started giving this guy
Darwin no emotion a woman will say that
now I'm emotionally attached there you
know or we have all those Xena devil
brothers do all these things that one
time I dropped it this guy told me says
you know I let these sisters Berlin for
the sake of Allah I said aren't you
sweet let me just run through the page
you know so this is just told you the
six love about the boat you know when
you're passing out pamphlets it's an
area with heavy traffic and this is what
we're talking about yesterday you know
you want to hand out as much material as
possible you spread out your people you
can't miss that area so if you've got
you know four entrances were safe this
is an entrance that one those are two
and there's a lot of traffic people are
going to be coming in and out of this
room so I'm gonna have a brother their
brother their brother their sister
they're gonna pass out material I'm not
just gonna have people in front of this
one door and then I'm missing those
three doors of a plan don't talk to each
other too much you always see this one
because people are too embarrassed okay
you know tons of people are coming
through that door and I don't want to
stand in front of Dorn's a v-formation
about it's not sure here you go some
reading with you for you here you go
there you go there you go embarrassing
so you know look like I'm busy doing
something else so I grab brother that
will man we to work for this Dean
so this Dean can become have the upper
hand on this earth who can inherit the
earth as the Allah promised to believe
it ok we'll do some work for the Dean
you know so don't talk to each other a
lot of times you just keep talking about
about the group sit down to one another
as people are walking by so your plan
here remember your goal was to end up as
material as possible sometimes that's
your plan sometimes your plan is no I
just gonna talk to as many people as
possible you know your pamphlet is just
there to start the conversation you
passed it you look them in the eye you
ask the question they stop you start
talking sometimes you just want to pass
out material like you know especially
rallies and stuff like that people are
already chanting things there's not much
time to talk we just hand out the to as
much as possible don't do the thing
where two brothers keep talking to each
other you know what working for a lot
work do the work so you know don't miss
a single person or the guy gave him a
pamphlet and he said what do I do now
there could be another gun like that but
you missed them because you're telling
them talking to their brother over here
don't talk just past the wrong path
material have a catchphrase now the
whole idea is you want people to stop
and talk to you
really and if you just want to cross our
path we'll just throw them in the air
but you want to talk to people at some
point so the one of the ways people will
stop you have a catchphrase someone give
me a catchphrase someone new meaning
someone who has not heard the works of
somebody new catchphrase what would you
say you want to give someone something
to read about snuff
oh you said there's no wrong answer yes
sister
what do you know but it's not there you
go what do you know but it's not what
learn and prosper I like that
I like me who likes that oh my never
heard that one before
learn prosper Wow good yes sir what's
the purpose of life it's not a bad one
very good yeah for you Oh brothers in
the hardcore over your salvation there
you go are you so big yes
very good learn about you Lord do you
know your Lord protect you
oh man I like this guy insurance great
excellent excellent good job you guys
Thanks
anyone want to add anything yes sister
what's that okay nice nice curtain
possibly when you say that your pamphlet
has something to do with that right
great
yes sir you only answer you're sorry you
already know the answer you might say
that as you're handing it out okay good
good excellent one more yes sir explore
it's not man the truth is near okay the
truth is here okay good
please so now and the one I might use
and just happens to be the one but I'm
gonna start using protect yourself what
we say information on the purpose of
life screen beneficial they take it
thank you very much have a nice day free
information on the purpose of life they
refuse it thank you have a good day if
they take it you know then sometimes
they look you in the eye free
information on the purpose of life
what is the purpose of life sir and then
they might tell you something and
whatever right or wrong it doesn't
matter the whole point is they stop and
you might say well this is what it stops
this is the purpose of life and you
started talking free information on the
purpose of life free and beneficial and
my thing is you either take it or you
hear it so if they don't want to take
the concert from me I want to still make
sure they hear the message so free
information all the purpose of life they
don't take it and what is the purpose of
life sir to worship the creator is the
purpose of life thank you very much for
you for making on the doors like that
you know you're walking around you're
talking to people morning you're
greeting them I was talking we already
look like Osama so smile when you meet
you know it's a nice experience small
you have good morning and good they
thank you very much they take it you
thank them you don't think you thank you
it's not a problem and that makes that
whole shy thing an embarrassment thing
go away they say no just thank you very
much and that's it and and it has
happened in the past one when you
refused like one time someone refused to
take a bath but I still thank them and
they came back and they liked the fact
that no you were polenta so you know
thank you I'll take fine so now here in
the end though what you're handing out
the way you're handing up I want you to
think of a number of things here first
of all not every haplit is good that's
the truth there's some factors that are
not good they're not well written that's
true and some of them and the majority
maybe or and they were just now starting
to see some new stuff come out but for
the last 15 years who have been handing
out stuff printed in the 70s with that
horrible ink and the weird language and
not relevant and just so on and so forth
so not every public is good and not
every good pamphlet it's good
every good pamphlet is appropriate right
who practices polygyny got a good
pamphlet yeah it's a good Catholic but
is it appropriate for every situation
and walking on the street just handing
out that Padfoot yeah there you go
the months listening
we're not but but whatever I have an
event about women in Islam so I have you
know that part of who wears the veil
women in Islam polygyny is it
appropriate now makes sense now so not
every concert is good and not every good
pathway is appropriate so it's good to
have a rough idea of what you're ending
up I'd like to suggest a pamphlet that
roughly covers Sophie the problem set up
and with other four pillars and
something about maybe life indefinitely
and if death and there many like that by
the way most of them tend to have those
important points in there and so no have
a rough idea just skim through it no
it's what you're handing up because of
all kinds people they just you know they
come into the box of pamphlets you're
gonna hand out and so they say oh well
let me have some of the green the blue
is nice some of the red any more of the
pink now we have problems now so it's
not about the coloreds you know what
you're handing up because the joke is
you give it to a non-muslim when they
say what is this a bow and your answer
is no all right
so know what you're handing out anything
about this page
because Americans are like that whatever
they stayed a lot in Canada the greeters
are asked not to talk to people our
children
very nice thick people come be there and
people people would pour out their life
story - you know big readers or just
people people the street unless it's
it's strange so like ok well thank you
for saying that you know because I mean
obviously I don't live in Canada like I
had this incident near three years ago I
want to give the workshop in the UK and
a lot of the things that applied to the
u.s. just we're totally useless in the
UK you know the whole section on
training was useless in the UK most
people don't believe in Trinity most
people are atheist and the problem do
not want in - there are the atheists not
not those who believe in Trinity so so
you're gonna have to no adjust to what
suits your locality or Europe or your
country so as I go for pointing out you
can always tell me look you know be
quiet because this doesn't apply here
now I just skip that section all right
so good now
no I want us to think about this
tomorrow we can start to or maybe toward
then they start to formulate ways of
responding or tweaking things so it
works for Canada maybe what I just the
demo I just gave you of telling people
you know free information on the purpose
of life maybe it doesn't work here in
Canada so we might do it another way you
tell me what that is I can't tell you
what that is maybe we're just gonna hand
out Commons but without saying a word I
don't know maybe that makes a difference
or maybe you just might ask the simple
question or you might just say no pray
thee take this or I don't know what you
do but someone tell me something by the
end of the day ok ok thank you but
anything else
like I said any kinds of dimensions
those basic things trifold that's what
you pass up more than anything else
there's the more expensive your gift is
the serious person the bigger that book
or the pamphlet you give it out when you
feel that person might read or will read
or they ask for it specifically so I
said I want to put on again for on the
brief illustrated guide to Islam and
used to cost a lot back then and you
just don't throw it out like it through
a trifold pamphlet but sometimes you
meet someone who you feel this person
will read you give it to it or they
actually see that book and they're more
interested in it a small pamphlet you
give it to them so but you know one of
the ones that I'd like also the one
called just one message you seen that
one no okay well I'd really like that
one if you write it down you will have a
rough time getting all of it
I've always promoted it people can't
find it and even I give them the email
address and the phone numbers and
everything from the pencil and none of
them work whatsoever but right you're
all like you're wrong okay now just what
message what why what I like about it
it's brief to the point it gets people
to think outside of the box and I've
never ever seen this except in that one
conflict it asks for this jihad they can
be end excellent you know the credit
card applications just fill this form
out now it asks for your business
everyone has like just talk about Islam
there's just death and if you don't burn
it do it you this will happen have a
nice day this one says you need to
become a semi
now look for you know a mess didn't look
and come can contact them and because so
you can write your own yes sir like a if
you're interested or you can have the
stuff sticker and you've stuck it on all
the accomplice that you're going to hand
out they have the email address of an
MSA or the message that you're
associated with whatever it is works
definitely anyone else
okay right so here again quite clear you
know stay with the topic the rules are
the same they rule you talk about the
same thing that's one person or 50
thousand 50 people huh
that you hear that took the talk change
don't misrepresent it's not a lot of
times people it try to tell the audience
something about a stump that's really
not true to make them feel more inclined
to become a Muslim I'll tell you why
that block street that well you know or
or MSA that would table pipe down just
for those who I will be using a lot of
Street that way examples for the sake of
the example of the dialogue that went
about but I I'm not a big fan of sweet
sour anymore
okay that doesn't mean doesn't work but
it's not about your big fat I just want
to put that out there because most of
the time I'll tell you we weren't these
people were doing street daro and this
happened and that happened but I'm not a
big fan of that it you know when you do
it even within a university setting I
recommend that you be in groups or in
pairs no we traveled as a group of this
big main road or we stay as a group in
North court but then we break up into
pairs
if we can't ideal it it's just there's
so much benefit of the partner we're
coming to that you know it takes
inspiration you know sometimes you might
buy a little bit more time at some when
you walk with them a little bit
technical therefore young god but the
point is that's more with a discreet
there are a lot of it does apply to
university table tower we already went
through this slide the next one in and I
think we went through that as well and
we were saying that you know don't give
the shape on an average so we don't want
to always you know this guy's taking out
if the prettiest girls out to dinner to
talk them about a lot so it's not so we
don't do stuff like that and once the
talk goes beyond or outside of what what
it is in Islam then we have a problem
so even if the sisters telling this
person about the love across the center
there's no one else except her fine but
the man gets into hey Google Google I
let the color of barrier a job where
you're shooting problem no so one way we
solve that we're used to is that missus
our dollar table you have two brothers
over here and two sisters over there
and guess who comes to get information
from brothers yes Jennifer a green on
Vanessa knows and Ken who comes to those
sisters to learn how to stop Chad bride
and the other guy so what happened we
did the quick trade you know so she
comes she wants turn on the bus stop
okay well let me introduce you to your
father over here this is Vanessa she
would like to missing efforts not you
come back here they bring your shadow or
wherever comes and you just keep it like
that don't give on and Avenue but
if there's nobody there how about you
you lower you get if you talk you don't
just
all right fine move on talk about
something when we're talking about
pamphlets and I was saying that every
time that is good you know there's this
thing where when it comes to the whole
you don't study and we don't engage but
even though you must were scientists and
in life when it comes to that all the
science applies out the window for some
reason a lot of times this is how a good
counsel is written some guy opens up
Microsoft Word he starts to type what
feels good to him he prints it next day
shows it to his friends they read it
this is great they're all Muslims now
all of them left
this is excellent and then they say
let's print 100,000 copies of it great
but this is how I would like to see some
group for the pants without and there's
actually a group in Australia that
they're doing a great job they have put
a lot of study to formulating an
effective conflict when actually when I
spoke about this at the workshop they
were in there and they came to in the
bracelet was been actually doing is
we're working on you know conflict they
wrote it then they're gonna get you know
different focus groups and send people
to read it of different ethnicities
different religious backgrounds
different age groups male-female and
then they're going to take this survey
what part did you understand what part
did you like the most which part was
confusing then they're going to adjust
and make the openness area changes then
they will make down 2,000 copies makes
sense makes sense right so it's not just
you know what feels good to me or what
sounds good to me you know so I don't
like this look there's one guy that I
know he owns a an audio company you only
sell audios of the reciter that he likes
that's you you don't let this reside but
there's a hundred thousand other people
that like this result you only going to
sell them what you would like so so
everyone has different tastes so the
same thing I like this pamphlet that's
the odd life dude
so let's put it out no let's get other
people that see more anonymous than how
do they feel about it so that's what I'm
saying which comes to Davos sometimes we
forget about studies there's a sister
got a PhD in something where there's an
mystics all right look at the field
statistics and there was a non-muslim
who read a copy of the Quran he was
offended by one statement in the
translation of explanation and she
started going on campus telling people
don't ever give this copy out to not
Muslims he defends them he's just one
person who was offended but she kept
walking on singing and finish them know
that copy has actually been in
circulation for about 15 years it's one
of the most popular many people came to
Sun because of it and very few if any
people have complained now this one guy
after 15 years of circulation has
complained she's saying let's let's take
it off the shoulders
he said one person and she's 30
statistics what I hope the science
suddenly with that what you want to go
on but you know we don't want to go on
study science research we want to roll
on butter and lately we've been running
on fumes so let's do some study ok one
more scenario I don't know if we did
this in part one so basically there's
one person who called me up and said
look from now on I'm going to I'm not
going in and out like this but I'm going
to be organizing Islamic Nashik concerts
and that'll be my dial to non-muslims so
what's your argument here or maybe you
agree what's your argument someone told
you from now on my dad what is
organizing his stomach machine
conference I'll bring you know
native pickup and he was inducing and
whatever and all that and then people
all right so that's assuming that if
their methods are correct and their
voices are Holland made their words
their Holland and that would probably be
a good dog okay that's assuming that
this is okay I'm gonna have barbed wire
an electric fence now use it keep it but
you're all assuming that if there's no
music this will work yes sir you must be
what are you man my target market and
stuff I like it we need to talk during
lunch
good yes sir yes what makes you think
that that is effective way of giving
doubt okay we need to establish that
first what makes you think this is an
effective way of giving down and that
was I mean you said in the very nice
absolutely just sent me I don't think
you will become Muslim because of an
Islamic machine concerts he said and
I'll get to you because now we got to
the point that you probably right but
I'm telling you this is what happened in
the story that's what I said Tim and
this was his answer now I need you to
answer this part he said no one time I
was up an Islamic in the Sheep concert
and when the concert was over a guy got
up on stage and took a shot so it does
work does bring people to Islam
now I'm really respond to that let me
try sisters first yes is turn the back
you've never looking in a context the
whole purpose of it that he want to do
is to have it for the Dawa that was just
like a machine
you I mean you were right but he's gonna
come back and argue with you again look
the guy took his head after the concert
so I'm gonna prepare concerts from now
on invite different speakers and that's
it sister huh excellent sister's a
scientist not that you were wrong
everybody was talking look at but the
question was how do you know that he
became a Muslim because of the lyrics in
the song how do you know that that is
what they refer to as one data point you
just see one data point you don't know
what happened before it first of all
let's go all the way back first of all
do not look okay go ahead just okay
doctor but I'm but like now let's go
back to the what the sister was saying
so how do I know what happened to this
guy to get him up on stage first of all
let's go backwards do not Muslims
usually flock to conferencing if they
say you know native the big guy is
coming to town did anybody know who that
is so did they just come and flock to
these concerts so what what will you
think why is that non-muslim there that
what might have happened
take a guess yeah possibly that's also
very true and sometimes are some of
those fakes actors I know because I've
seen some of those a guy took shy the
last week but we have an event today so
come and do it on stage you know the
sisters are crying and stuff but he was
already yeah there you go
most likely he was invited by somebody
it's not like Michael Jackson kind of
came to town are the children I mean
I can't resist the light that guy really
didn't become stoom
I already told people I'm gonna book a
flight to apologize so what happens when
we're not Muslims don't typically run to
these concerts they don't know these
groups so most likely get there soon his
friends probably invited them too that
come with us now do we know what he went
through before coming up on stage maybe
he sat with him read half of the wall
maybe they took him to Islamic events
fundraising dinners they took him to the
Masjid they took him to you know the
basketball game in the Masjid they maybe
went through so much before coming up on
stage and finally saying the Shahada
so as the sister said you just saw one
data point you don't have enough
information to assume that he became
Muslim because of the lyrics and plus
it's a huge huge concert a lot of
posters a lot of no advertising a lot of
money to get once you had that every
time you could put that same effort
money into something and get you a lot
more people to become Muslim but to
everyone else you see what's what's
wrong here
yeah yes
like what sister saying because she is
not yeah it was something like that
and she's not you know putting aside the
possibility that it could be something
that works or it could be something that
is it's one step my catapult them into
studying about us now that's true but in
order to say that we need to some kind
of research I don't have any problem
someone who comes and says look we've
done research and actually brings you
know every country will bring six people
from the street into Islam
great at least now they have Richard
research to support don't you say well
once I saw a guy take his job because of
this and let's all do that no okay great
so we're gonna move on a little bit but
the whole point it was an important
point let's study let's see and a lot of
times it's just a guess and we all go on
that guess those I told you there's one
popular speaker and I won't mention his
name very popular Dahlia and here's a
rule that in order to give darling it to
be what he used to have this rule in
order to give doll you need to be an
african-american so please the whole of
you were from you know our Arabs are
from the indo-pak region get out you
know so a minute for this rule okay we
went again this was a cowboy event we
went to DC I think I told you the story
last month or something
we're all went to DC give some tower DC
predominately african-american so one
arrow brother he made up a rule suddenly
and everybody liked it he said every
every group every group
to have to have a black person in it I'm
gonna story so black people became a
very hot commodity at that moment and
everybody was trying to grab a black guy
he's my partner so in the end there were
two brothers two Arabs who didn't have a
black guy in their room and then the
thick Arab accent and they were standing
there complaining we don't have this
rule I just let it go just go out and
call people talk about you know when we
reconvene at the end of the day each
group had you know effectively gotten
one Shahada their group got to the only
group that got to and they didn't have a
black guy in their group so people make
up these rules there's no studies just
gut feeling running on butterfl fuse but
that's not how we want to do whatever
you do we want to base it on something
and sometimes you might base it on
nothing but it's your experiment yeah
and I don't have any proof to say this
might work but I'm gonna try the
experiment if it doesn't work try
something else
there's not I'm not saying don't be
creative with that right be creative but
don't make up these rules we can
experiment and end up and test these
rules but we don't bank on their money
percent okay so how much time you have
face myself pretty fine needs a break
maybe we'll take a break for part of it
great if someone feels they need to take
a break get into a refreshable door
because the restroom I'll get something
to drink
feel free to do that okay so now all you
see which one
I'm gonna go or maybe we'll go over all
of it quickly you have to be patient so
important we got it together
Darwin patient 33 a patient you might be
the reason that someone never ever
becomes a Muslim you could be that
reason you don't want that ever and a
lot of times people become impatient
like that and they say things that
offend people I remember one time
someone Hindu came to the dollar table
he said I'm never going to become was
said why he said I was here yesterday
and some of the people at this table
insulted me and they said you know what
are these statues and gods and fake gods
at your worshipping so they insulted him
so he said I'm never gonna become most
imagine now we already have enough
things to deal with on the day of
judgment now you gotta listen to people
who said well I never became Muslim
because he was rude or insulted or he
left to school to be patient you don't
want to be the reason someone never
enters into some so they go to their
grave to be very patient with people and
you know that much some people have
misconceptions some people believe
what's on TV some people you know you
know a route by nature will encounter
those people when you've prepared to be
patient encounter problems it makes it
easier
like is it like like you still have some
occasion does that happen you yes yeah
okay sure all right let me ask you this
what's - let's see what can you do
within the law here because if we're in
Sudan I know what I'll do so anyways you
know the five evidence is right I always
teach my students about the five
evidences if you disagree with me about
five evidences for you you writing them
down myself I'm just joking you guys
here they are one two three four five
brothers okay but what can you do within
the law someone goes to suggestion you
wanna be in jail by myself somebody else
good so you know you might try the
question now that might work if that
person genuinely believed that and he
was telling you that and get you all
riled up everything they said to me will
be to them but I like you sir I wish
everyone was like you that's good you
can do that huh yeah okay all right I
just
when he no one's come talking this is
enough
our windows moving sort of like just got
walk away from them right
can I talk about them on so just you can
you can walk away you know that's choice
here so you might be good to walk away
if they're just trying to infuriate you
if the brother is like the brother was
saying they really think that's the case
you might you know discuss it more with
them yes you can question their source
where do you got information from so on
and so forth they're just trying to make
you upset it's probably better to walk
away especially if you know you have a
temper problem run away all right all
right beegley and we need an appearance
that's just the general recommendation
like I said you don't like anything I
put up there believe it issue but
generally I recommend that you were if
you're purposely going out for Dawa I
recommend you look a little bit above
average or average is fine but if you're
purposely going out for a double it
doesn't mean if I'm walking down the
street in my regular jeans a t-shirt
someone asked me about Islam that have
to go to the phone booth
so generally clean you know what's the
joke with the on this slide you don't
remember
yeah Jerry full of crud and he's telling
to be straightforward allows you didn't
burst pay for this in the Quran that's
how he gets his message across to us it
means that's the best means of
communicating with human beings being
straightforward which also means it's
the best way they can communicate with
each other that's why the Quran any
question the answer is visiting to do
this that's the reward you do that
that's the punishment it's only a kindly
ask about what that's the answer very
straightforward and it also makes life
so easy when people are straightforward
with you and when you're going around in
circles and beating about the bushes
they say you can't really get your point
across and the other person will
understand you either so be
straightforward ask for a name why ask
for name new people why ask for a name
yes sister
very good
mom
excellent joke ellipsis to mention two
points yes very good
and the problem actually when he asked
him his name he used that to discuss you
know his origin and then it became a
double reason sister said asked for the
name it makes it that whole personal
true and he wanted that to be personal
you don't want to sound like you have a
script and he just come and you spill it
out to people so he makes a double
personnality and so the sister also said
you used the name so remember the name
we asked for the name remember the name
and used the name if you if you leave
one of these three it's useless if you
remember don't use it what's these two
remembering it if you forget it and
every time you come to use your name
again the towel it becomes personal you
remember how the process in um when he
came to mama got my mom what did he tell
him severely I am the prophet of Allah
sent to you he make well in a nasty
jamia can you imagine that get the
prophet of Allah comes and says I will
sit to you and then everybody else
listen to you very personal so you know
when you keep using that name in Japan
Dawa so so John we would love that you
become a brother this comes from John
actually discussed the most important
parts of their religion and you
absolutely right now have the
ingredients John of becoming a Muslim
John so you can smile and I was told
people you are representing a
misrepresented religion you're
representing a misrepresented religion
so make it a nice experience smugly no I
don't know is that work here maybe
didn't smile but whatever if it works
for us
but I think you smiling works University
I think wherever you are I don't think
there's any culture where if you smile
means you're upset
so smile and it makes it so much easier
and smiling is contagious and it shows
that you are happy to be there and it
shows that you you know are confident
because we will not come to that don't
smile so it's it's a lot of things that
conveys a lot of messages smile constant
they say something rude they smile and
they can refuse your confident smile
they throw in the truck smell one time
and you were walking down and there were
two brothers in front of us handing out
pamphlets they give a comfort to this
guy and he just threw it right in the
trash and then because basically this
would double coming at me like this
he took the pamphlet and they went by
there was a trust company through then
he looked up and we were coming so how
many filled embarrassment it just saw me
there was a conflict when we walked by
him I said second chance oh no big deal
you know but he said no thank you no
problem doesn't have to work every time
anyways um okay you know you okay so
you're trying to avoid unnecessary our
arguments unnecessary confrontations and
that's one of the benefits of having a
partner number eight because they can
help you with issues like that sometimes
especially sometimes you might give down
to two friends one of them is starting
to be its responsive the other person is
is not and it's a PowerBar you'll find
that the one who's not responsive with
being argumentative will rub off on the
other guy so here this is where your
partner's to pick them apart and how do
you split people apart and if two people
spending over here you're talking to
them and you're standing and your
partner's standing here and this guy is
making good headway with this guy and
this guy's not doing a good job arguing
I want to separate them from each other
how do we do it you just say you look
you stand you go again over there you
how do you do it well how would you do
it
there you go
no I have to do this is it so I'm
talking someone over here my partner's
over there I want to move this guy all
the way over there so so then just keep
talking to him and I just think we'll
step over like this and you know so and
then he moves a little bit after me a
little by little I move over I keep
talking to him and then and he keeps
moving with me and finally you will find
that we're over here and the partners
still were there or even if I think to
step this way and my party takes two
steps that way fellas were separated
this yes so it's not it's not that me
not everything is just Dean so some of
the things just be a little artsy little
finesse that's it makes life easy okay
here number nine means keep the focus on
it so he began this we're coming to this
when we discussed you know the process
the chart we're not just throwing
information I told you about the guy
with the chicken right yeah the guy who
was basically give a talk on talking
about tawheed and it was a dinner it was
a Tom speech and it was a dinner during
the dinner some Austin wanted to he
thought it was necessary to introduce
this potential rebirth in the concept of
the beehad had on me so the guy was very
intrigued by it and now after the dinner
I'm front of talking about tawheed and
he keeps asking me about halal meat so
everytime talk about Torrini trust me
okay well let me ask you this question
so suppose then the chicken was killed
in a de vida way but it was not raised
in a humane way does it still make it
holla and I didn't really like this
topic I mean Oh
I like the organic and he made and all
that so we're talking I kept so I
wouldn't find myself going into that
then I stopped myself
no no what are you doing I'm back to
talking I'm at the top hey well but if
the chicken wasn't and then I get back
to the chief you know what in the end I
just have to tell them listen don't
worry about the chicken right now I want
you to worry about yourself when you
become Muslim we'll go we'll fight for
the rights of the chicken you know you
know how much your society needs you
look like Berlin Toronto
man heard this told me that they had a
table that a big sign that said freedom
for I'm so an old lady came up to him
and she said what did what I'm dude she
thought what some guy in prison we're
fighting for him free or exactly okay
you can use simple language that's just
basic you know somebody's have a big
vocabulary and they always want to show
off it they think to convince people
come off as a professor so they use big
words like elephant hippopotamus thank
you so much yeah big long English words
interesting you know one of the most
effective drug we've ever seen he had
the same speech he gives it to
professor's
homeless people everybody gets the same
two speeches just one of the most
effective not successfully affected or
not I've ever seen ever
and he tells everybody about the three
questions of the great that's his
technique that's it the three questions
are the great he's done it he said it so
many times he has this incredible rhythm
when you get started you feel like
you're floating he just he has his first
regimen
not everybody intellectual not
intellectual they become nice look
through the same basic thing so you keep
it simple you get everybody everybody
understands simple the simple mind and
you know the water whoever is not simple
will understand but if you keep it at a
high level you miss out you miss all the
simples but we said this before you look
for these things ridiculous things
sometimes it's not and one time I was so
not interested in this now he says the
only problem is that I don't like the
fact that divorce is allowed it's not
that's it so then you help you if you
explain that how you know it can in some
cases even be a mercy if these people
will be forced to live their life
together when they can't stand each
other anymore or then you know so let me
give you one example here you see that
an idea there was a guy coworker and we
agreed that she's gonna come over to my
house over the weekend and we're going
to talk about religion so we had this
agreement that means I have time he
knows it's about really thing is not
gonna escape the topic or anything like
that so we made this agreement let's say
Monday so Monday during break later on
in the day he would come to me and say
so we're on for this weekend right but
y'all gotta convert it
Tuesday he comes in hey we're on this
weekend you're not converting me
Wednesday you think the same thing no do
we know exactly what you're saying that
not exactly right we can take guesses so
who'd like to take a guess why is he
saying that no no new people yes sir
okay so maybe he thought strong argument
he's gonna lay it on me
yes sir
he's got some strong argument what else
just guessing now no one's wrong yes I
was trying to show interest he's trying
to intimidate me first right yes sir he
believed you know he's very confident he
can refute whatever I say he's a devout
believer his sister in the back
ego yes aha he could be insecure there
are all these possibilities true
everyone agree everyone what that was
said everything that was said right now
could have been true right and all of
these were possible examples but I
thought what the master said now again
I'm not saying go to hey guess what my
my way is right but I said let me test I
think he's insecure now I tested it and
it happened to me the case I could have
tested it and it could have been what
the brother said over here but I tested
it at least so what are you gonna do it
could be this it could be that it is it
could be that but I'm gonna test and see
which one it is make sense we don't know
what the unseen here testing we diagnose
and so what the sister said you might be
a little insecure so he's telling
himself he's getting himself pumped up
you're not converting me you're not
converting me now for me that's not a
good thing why why
exactly he's gonna comment leave this
mindset I'm not going to be convinced I
want to hear it I'm coming in for a
class for a head but another one that so
what were what are possible ways again
there's no wrong answer what are
possible ways you can get them to think
no it's not like that
well what might you say to them yes
sister excellent that's exactly what I
told them you could have tried something
else yes okay now remember what what the
sister said I already told you the
problem is that he feels insecure so
give me answers related to that and
feels insecure
okay
you could I'm not saying you can't you
could but except this long-winded and
that's something he's supposed to make
him feel that oh so you're only gonna
die I love my open-water so in the other
who converted yeah yeah yeah American
white guy yes
no I'm not saying you're wrong good
sorry ok ok ok good very good I'm loving
all the comments this is great
so excellent everything you said was
right could it work either way
the sister said he had a confidence
issue and I figured that what it was he
was he doesn't know what I have in store
for him when it comes to my house she's
trying to convince himself and pump
himself up that I am gonna go as the
Catholic can come back as a Catholic he
won't change me he's afraid that I might
drop something on a good so hard he'll
come back as a different person than
when he came in so I started to tell him
yes you're right I started to give him
the confidence you're right
I can't convert you oh no you can
convert you I can't do anything to you
that you don't want you're the one on
the left you have to accept argument and
or not or reject it if you want to
so I mean didn't feel that we're not
coming here to class just like somebody
were saying we're just talking so he
actually let his guard down a football
this is good you know no pressure it's
not about who'll win or lose it's about
the decision I'm making the end
whichever way I win and so I hump the
Dhoni came he wasn't coming for looking
for a clash or a headbutt I hung them
that he did become with them at the end
of the talk so it's just again then you
find that problem that issue that
obstacle you can fix it yes sir
in this specific case I knew him for I
don't know for a number of months it
wasn't a long few months
Wesley became friends very quickly it's
a very nice guy but I mean it maybe
would have been maybe it was four months
maybe five but I'm just telling you this
specific case I'm not saying this is the
rule you should know them this long
before you invite them over or something
like that okay but twelve you know a lot
of communication is nonverbal so you
listen with your eyes and you remember I
told you I put down yeah you pay
attention to say something you know what
do you understand from this and I'm
giving you an actual examples not
someone says yes I'm such a great
religion if it just wasn't for all that
woman thing women issue where's that
tell you it's a misconception but woman
it's none right all right to another
true story someone asked me this
question now leave it to everything that
happens before they speak pulled me
aside and spoken in low voice now look
at the words I just want to check is
we've had that so what do you think is
the issue possibly know and of course
he's calling me inside a little ashamed
lowering his voice his question wasn't
is with Haram because if any of you have
ever been asked questions by people most
questions are is this how long this
question was is this this Allah and what
else what other nonverbal cues we see
okay and then when I said of course it's
hot obviously what happened so yeah I
mean a whimsical way of saying there's
so many ways you can understand what's
happening just from the way the
questions being asked the body language
and who's kind of a little bit cry you
know it's the word hunching and over
let's bring all that there's some issue
going on so that's what you are as a
data you look at all these things let me
tell you the full story of the guy who
became Muslim I gave her the password I
was walking this way down the sidewalk
and he's walking that way
and as I asked him I give him the path
that they kept one when he turned to
look at him he stopped and he was
looking at the pastor should I go back
and talk to him also you've read into a
sign he stopped why did he stop all day
I'm giving people Netflix they keep
walking
why did he stop that means there's
something that's a sign for you as a
deaf youth so he's interested enough to
stop I told myself should I go back home
I said yes when I got and he said what
do I do now see so all you have to do
you have to read into these things you
have to read into this side so that's
what it means a lot of communication is
nonverbal
look at these things constant try not to
overanalyze with just look at these a
lot of times with religion the
discussion is in the context or has the
flavor of being an argument by the way
something important hard to say that
I've forgotten as as we're going through
is if you look at the if you look at
your nose the slides towards the end
have more
the meat and potatoes in them the heavy
stuff but as we do each like the example
like if you they're actually you know
they have techniques enrolled in so try
to pay attention to them and I'll point
them out whenever I can
so let's say well here we're just going
over the do's and don'ts know in the
do's and don'ts begin with we discuss
techniques do we do that so far you talk
about the technique this is a technique
focus on having a partner with you you
know understanding these issues how to
do it we spoke about a couple of times
using the names in simple language being
straight forth all this is technique
even though it's just unlisted them to
do the dog so so well we're going to the
story is paid so we said that most of
the time when you have a religious
discussion its eminent it's in the form
of a kind of debate or who will win or
who would be proved true when that's the
case usually don't tend to listen to one
another now
show of hands we've seen the debate
between Jimmy Swaggart right now what
would you say for the new people what
would you say if I told you there is a
church that mass-produces that debate
without editing and they pass it out to
their congregation in church new people
tell me why would they do that
when do they do them yes sir in church
they send people what would they give in
that debate where their guys being
destroyed yes sir
sorry okay very good
yes possibly but that wasn't the case
yes but actually he gave the right
answers we'll go ahead do you want to
show that Muslims are just you could
have been right but that's not why he
already gave the right answer but you'd
have to still up go ahead give everyone
chest no exam that's what the brother
said you were you just putting a
different wording that's what happened
in their mind their guide wanted yes can
you believe that I get to this point so
usually I discuss it on another slide
but let's just do it here
there got it one it's under the dome
there we go just do both now don't start
talking no stop being aggressive and
sometimes people read that spider into
all your sink review and although as
aggressive not saying that look they
thought their guy won why because it was
a debate who's a debate context they
only don't hear the arguments about
might be the other came over they hear
they're a guy winning because when
there's a debate or something aggressive
for an argument people put a mental
block and you don't hear what you say
you see and now with that being said
after clarify the debate has its place
and it's not but it's not the normal
stuff
there is a place where the bacon is done
but it's not the normal and a lot of
times people think that's the norm that
you start debating a lot of people take
the workshop and then I see them give
devil they just try to make the person
uncomfortable and paint them into a
corner or about this versus the steps
that does not contradict when you just
said and this verse in this chapter
contradicts both these verses and become
eunuchs you as well that's not the point
most people would like to think that's
the case that they are going to choke
and choke and choke the life out of the
person before they die tonight it's not
how it is what is it
I mean that all comes from Ted to who to
invite so if it's an invitation it has
to be nice and gentle one more time let
me say there is a place for our confer
for debates and stuff but it's not the
norm when you encounter someone it's not
a debate as an invitation so think of
this that I wanted to go or to invite to
Allah
now if you invite someone to your house
is it gonna be a fight or is it gonna be
something nice and once it last time
somebody grabbed you by the shirt says
listen you eight o'clock my house Brioni
well why you don't come and whatever
invited you like that like that one the
invitation that was an invitation so it
can't be a fight and so many times
because of people because of the success
of the debate they think the norm is to
debate I say they spend their time
memorizing this person that versus me
they can tackle it and make you and
choke the life out of the other person
know some nice and gentle invitation so
there is a timing in some for debate
something norm but scholars recognize
there is a time when you have to debate
but it's not how you go around every day
trying to debate so people become
defensive
now let's go back to where we were we
said that because people think of debate
context they don't listen so how do you
get people to listen very simple concept
concept of reciprocity I come to it a
lot of times it's always there at human
communication that to get people to
listen to you all you have to do is show
them that you're listening to them
that's it
so to show them that you're listening
this is what you do as you're talking
you're not it right obviously you
suspend all activity and if someone's
talked to me and I keep writing what if
I stop writing and I pay attention to it
and as you're talking I'm not yes I'm
following you no I'm using open gestures
okay you know if I stand like this even
if I smile still looks a little
threatened
so these open gestures lean forward
someone's going to but religion is just
like this it's different what if I lean
forward like this and I'm not even
paying attention you know you know
maintain eye contact but don't stare at
them too hard don't stare them down
because it's it's very hard on people
when you stare them down you become very
uncomfortable
don't stare anyone down so what's the
solution they tell you obviously if a
man talking to a man or woman talking to
a woman you go between looking at them
in the eyes and then they say you know
the shirts here are just button like
they're the second button or F over
their shoulder so you go between and
roll their eyes or button eyes and they
feel that you were generally looking at
them but you're not staring them down
and so with and with women and if a man
talking to a woman or a woman talking to
an understand that they do understand
the concept of luring the gates they do
understand that it's not like they're
totally oblivious to that concept they
do they're are aware of it and sometimes
you run into those people who want you
to look them in the eye and maybe every
now and then you're gonna run into those
women this is a buddy up here but for
the most part they understand it and I'm
sparing you this first but generally
there's a there's a woman that's gotta
get rid of her for two hours she want to
marry this Muslim guy so he brought
invite her to spend for two hours he
spoke to her I mean up at house with
people there when he left she cried she
said I've spoken to religious people of
every faith and they all look at me and
they look at my beauty or they all gonna
be stare at me she said this man never
ever once raised his eyes to look at me
she was very violent she knew had that
he respected
she didn't study about lowering the gaze
and read the ayah
she knew it so you know so so much so
we'll obviously the opposite sex with
stare try to lower your gaze so the way
to get people to listen to you is
you listen show them that you listening
to them and they would reciprocate
because and they will say no it was
listen to me I will listen to them now I
always say that the time some Mormons
came to my house and as I was talking to
them they kept flipping through the they
weren't listening to me they were just
flipping through the Bible preparing
their next party and I noticed that I
remember catching it and I said to
myself oh you're not listening to me
we'll see if I listen to them when it's
their turn to speak when they were
speaking I care about them so I'm just
going through my books preparing my next
argument you think we're gonna move
forward probably not so listen number 12
listen and you know what most people
don't listen if you pay attention to it
you'll see them speaking the truth
most people are talking Muslims
non-muslims your friends most people do
not listen
most people are for poor listeners you
know believe me no my buddy pay
attention to it pay attention to it
during lunch you will see people don't
really listen very well and especially
you know you don't hear sometimes people
ask you a question they don't listen to
your answer and one of the ways you know
people aren't listening to you when your
scent is ends theirs is beginning
immediately
you were you were just waiting for you
to shut your mouth basically not paying
attention you pay attention to it you'll
see very few people listen and I also
say this missed a few slides before very
few people smile I'm talking about
Muslims very good people smile pay
attention to it people pay attention to
it and talk about good Muslims in the
messages with the to stick with
everything they don't smile don't
believe me wait till you go to Isha
prayer notice how many people will smile
at you Thomas it'll say all the nice
things to you but without a smile don't
smile
pay attention to it every time you smile
to get a reward
let me see 50 people a day 20 people who
take ten people a day you smile to get
ten rewards not to play that by 365 days
of the year you have you multiply that
if you live up to 50 or 60 or 70 years
old you've got a mountain of good things
how salem said do not belittle
a roofie Shh do not belittle any of the
good deeds it adds up and whatever su
mocha which he'll wake up so that you're
smiling the piece of your brother's ass
up
so pay attention to that okay pay
attention
people don't smile and they don't listen
you'll see
okay
I'm gonna skip this comeback under a
different category
okay don't make anyone feel dumb every
question is a good question right and
you know even you think you know you've
got examples there avoid so sometimes
the obstacle is another human being who
wants to make problems noise your
partners that can save you today when it
comes to that thing I always tell the
story about the lady DC and basically I
found this guy with a very serene calm
look on his face white eat him start to
give him devil this old lady came out of
her house she saw us in his white those
she's oh you're the guys who don't
believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and she
started saying the Lord taught me how to
dance and she started dancing it's not a
lot of time for that obviously
so my partner immediately know what to
do
see the benefit have a new partner
doesn't have to tell him I have to
believe they know so you what took her
aside they started to discuss dance
moves well over here I could talk to
this person without any noise so that's
why the department just saw such a
benefit and here I reference the the
example of the process Adam when he
invited his family Bloo Dee boo
Willa and he wanted to give him dower
right and then I would have to stop the
process said look you're calling us for
that new religion of yours gonna want to
hear so what happens or one narration
Priscilla invited them again same people
except this time without a Willa and you
call them to a stop so well explained
this is the Golden Rule which is over
the goal which means make the sale which
means Wendy Hospital Shahada when you've
discussed all the essential things and
that person has the ingredients to
become a Muslim does it make sense that
you don't have before that you had at
this point right it's like saying I'm
inviting you to my house so you're
walking all in your chit-chatting as
you're walking to the house when you get
to the door of your house you open the
door you enter in the slam door in their
face same thing
I'm inviting you to stop talking talking
talking when you reach the door you stop
in their face
no you're asking for this you have and
this is the golden rule I told you there
were two rules that I insist upon
absolutely this is one of them I fought
this world so much sometimes if I'm sure
that I won't become Muslim now as to ask
me to share because it does a lot to the
person mentally you saying you look you
need to become Muslim it's important so
are you ready to become Muslim now it's
really saying you actually have to
become Muslim it's just a matter of an
hour later but you need to become a
Muslim and I always give the example to
sales when they tell you that you know
in sales sometimes
studies they found that first there many
reasons why a sale won't go through the
thousand and one reasons why someone
will not commit to purchasing something
whether it's a suit or a car or whatever
it is there's so many reasons the I had
a credit card they only accepted cash
I have to consult my wife was a color
but but they found in one area that 96%
of the time the salesman didn't ask for
the sale for the same you have to ask
for the Shahadah sometimes people don't
want to change their life they don't you
know everything you say made sense to
them
but they need encouragement and again I
explained effective versus successful
right the beginning right so the I want
to show you the the difference in
effectiveness that it's made for me not
in success so I have to stand in front
of this store every Saturday called
Islam given a five minute introduction
to Islam and when I was done there was
this awkward silence because I thought
after the introduction is such a
beautiful religion they should beg me to
let them become the stuff but it would
just stare at me and I would stare back
at them it was very weird awkward
silence they were waiting for me and I'm
waiting for them I discovered at this
point is one since we got to that point
the pillars the Prophet said done and he
no shadow because they have the
ingredients are being mustard so the
difference between nothing when I didn't
know this rule and when I found out the
rule would be like five shadows a day
versus zero for four years
that's just effectiveness I keep
stressing effectiveness I don't want you
to think I'm telling you that's what you
told about numbers it's not what I'm
saying
and a lot of people I know many people
come up to me at the end of the workshop
do you have one
I only say the same thing I lost count I
mean what do they want sometimes because
they want you to give it
thousands I can't even if I wanted to I
couldn't keep up any many I'm just
saying I couldn't keep up like that I
was telling you some people they'll tell
you about this twenty thousand if it's
not yeah or this may with the details of
this money and four hundred twenty six
people to smell and then one so that
means the guy with the highest number is
the best down here what does it mean
really
so let's not get caught up in a head
count but I'm just showing you how this
will make you more effective so you
can't think of one time the process in
them went to a group of people to invite
you to smell and then didn't invite them
to stuff even the sentence doesn't make
any sense so in order for someone to
come down you ask them to come into this
club and a lot of times I'll have two
birds in the audience you know when did
you become Muslim well when finally one
of my friends asked me to become Muslim
I can't stress this point enough I'm not
saying if someone asks you why they grow
a beard the immediate to say well
because I must become Muslim I'm saying
that if someone has the ingredients of a
Muslims then cause you ask them to
become Muslim now what if they say no
what do you say no
there's an obstacle ask the questions to
find out the obstacle when you discover
the obstacle you give solutions and then
what are you doing that's when the shot
again fix the problem if it's a no
probably another obstacle there could be
15 I don't know how many there are
maybe the 15 will be there to ask again
and you know you try to fix that problem
or say yes you go
good
uh-huh they need to think it over right
which means the truth is there can never
be no reason ever never just absolutely
impossible you think it's possible there
can be no reason there's no way why
would you become there's no reason all
right there's no reason it becomes
change your - as easily if there's
nothing to stop you it's impossible they
just don't want to tell you the reason
your stranger to them comfortable
they're not ready to go on a share or
they don't believe like anything that
you've said doesn't matter but there's
never no reason I won't agree with that
I mean if you disagree feel free to
argue your point could to be absolutely
no reason okay
but they just don't want to tell you so
it's if you can't get it out of them
what the sister said would be correct
you exchange information don't know we
think about it pray about it that's it
what you're gonna do and you might
encounter them again next semester if
you're in college and then you might ask
them again what have you and yes
sure sure
oh good nice but very good sisters Saint
have the sincerity that's the beginning
of Part two coming to that the other
part and but so what might be doing this
situation quite easy
they think you're upset because you're
looking down thank you
just explain to them what why you're
doing it and it's a good though of Anu
and their many stories with it from
luring the gays people came up it's not
you know one time we're studying Phyllis
one of my students asked me where should
you keep her gaze I said in the clock go
ahead sir
I know it's corny I know I might go
ahead sorry uh-huh so you might add a
smile so you might think you're angry
but it's smiling a little bit
I'm I'm standing up the tail and the
customers here oh okay it's like how
about a camera like so so now on this
guy you can get a warranty on it for
their buck 49 it'll cover you for two
replacements it just costs an extra
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don't eat your seat or anything like
that you want that
okay okay did you see that what do you
mean just like focus on focus on the
area even even if you have to like look
like look like you're engaged but you
don't focus on something else while
you're doing it but you make it look
like you you're actually engaged all
right so there ways around it and I
think we're gonna come to more amusing
than we discussed what happens when
someone's trying to shake your hand
how do I do it there's so many ways like
the what the burger did just now there
won't really pay attention that they you
actually didn't look at them we're gonna
discuss something things that don't
really this this I mean they won't
really notice that you didn't shake
answer it because you made it so smooth
nothing like I thank you very much for
coming up here I think it's probably
time to stop okay
but lunchtime dropping off Aaron when we
come back we'll continue Charla along
it's