every year men spend billions of dollars
to look at women with little clothing on
such as the annual Sports Illustrated
Swimsuit Issue or with no clothing on
such as on internet sites and in
so-called men's
magazines women on the other hand spend
virtually nothing to see unclothed
men why some say that the reason is that
men are socialized into viewing women as
sex objects and that women are
socialized into not viewing men as sex
objects but if that's true how do these
people explain gay men they are as
aroused by pictures of naked men as
heterosexual men are aroused by pictures
of naked
women obviously then it's not
socialization it's that men are
programmed by Nature not by Society to
respond sexually to the
visual this is an area in which men are
so different from women that it's
probably impossible no not probably just
outright impossible for a woman to truly
understand of course women find some men
attractive and of course a woman can
have an intense reaction to seeing a
very appealing man but there's still no
comparison the visual alone arouses men
it takes far more to arouse a woman than
seeing naked men if that's all it took
most husbands would walk around the
house naked whenever possible or at
least every time they wanted
sex and the average heterosexual man is
excited countless times a day simply by
seeing women in person on billboards in
magazines on television and even in his
imagination this is not the case for
women yes there are some male strip
shows for women but few women ever go
and the few who do attend them in groups
a girl's night out and for every one of
those shows there are probably 10,000
Female Strip shows for males most of
whom attend alone not as a participant
in a guy night out let's be honest there
is no magazine featuring men's legs for
women to look at and get aroused by but
there are websites and magazines of
women's legs for men and are women
paying to view topless men men pay good
money to look at topless women again
that doesn't mean women never get turned
on by merely looking at some men of
course they do but it's only some men on
rare occasion a stranger and more
usually a
celebrity men get turned on by any sight
of female Flesh on almost any female the
effect of the visual in men is so
powerful that it even amazes men a man
came over to me after hearing me lecture
on male sexuality and said I've got a
story to tell you I was in front of a
department store and the window was a
seated mannequin I couldn't believe it
but I found myself looking up her
skirt here was a perfectly normal
responsible man who found himself
looking up a skirt on an inanimate
object shaped like a
woman that's how instinctive it is for
men to look at female
flesh it's perfectly understandable that
women cannot fully relate to this but if
a woman wants to understand male
sexuality the first thing she has to
understand is the power of the visual
that's why you see ads on billboards on
TV and in magazines for every sort of
product a man might buy accompanied by a
scantily clad woman or sometimes just
part of her I recall a famous liquor ad
that showed a woman's legs and a bottle
of tequila no face just beautiful legs
would you ever see an ad showing men's
legs people would laugh it would be
considered absurd an ad with women's
legs is not absurd it's
alluring none of this is in any way
meant to excuse inappropriate male
Behavior men must always control
themselves but to deny the power of the
visual on men it's like denying that the
Earth is
round I'm Dennis
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