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alhamdulillah peace be unto you welcome
to the dean show
peace be up to you welcome to the D show
we're going to get into the topic
marriage all praise du to Allah the most
merciful the compassionate and may a
peace and blessing of Allah be upon his
messenger Muhammad s
wasam marriage in Islam love is probably
the most spoken about subject in life of
men and women today we see that in In
Living in the 20 21st century it's it
has become a cult the body culture means
everything is about beauty people they
would like to marry someone because of
their physical characteristics nothing
about what is beyond that actually most
marriages they start with a loving
relationship specifically living in this
culture you have so many people who go
with these kind of test driving
marriages or sometimes even drive-
through marriage they just meet each
other you know in in a in a club or in
some kind of casual event and all of a
sudden they're in love and
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agree at what age should a youth get
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married and then usually if you're not
married you have I mean it's not
everybody but I know people it's like
you're kind of like a wild animal
sometimes well it depends of course on
the environment and how much they they
get let it to go loose yes indeed some
you got your you can't your your desires
run wild you get heat you get full of
this heat and his passion doing you get
the chance to getting some real trouble
you live in the 21st century yeah and
when you go around walking in America
walking in the West in general you would
see that again it's all about body
culture even right now and almost
everywhere in the world body culture
body culture it's all wherever you go
it's all about men getting in shape
muscles whatever they try to
do Flex in how I look what do you got to
say to the parents who are restricting
say the youth now he's got this urge
right and he wants to get married he
fears his creator because he knows if I
fall into the fornication I'll get some
big trouble right that's one of the is
that one of the major sins absolutely
major sins major sins one of the major
sins punishable so you have this fear of
your Creator and love you don't want to
displease him now you want to get
married you've come to that but your
parents giving you a hard time now
they're like you know what wait till you
finish school and you know we got to
make get this $25,000 wedding what do
you got to say to the parents well
so you're telling me that in marriage
lawful marriage you having relations
with your wife you getting reward you're
getting rewarded for that absolutely the
prophet Muhammad himself he he said that
he
said means someone apped his spouse
means uh of course with intimacy and
pleasure they will be rewarded for that
even his companions they got shocked by
that news said y Allah oh messenger of
Allah someone is going after his desire
and he goes and he gets reward I mean I
mean just satisfying his desire it's a
rewarding Thing by itself so do you get
also a Heavenly reward for that he gave
them now theal for that he said what if
this person does that in unlawful way
wouldn't they be held accountable for
that and he'll be punished for that he
said yes said oh messenger of Allah he
said so the same thing if he does that
in a Lo way he be reward you know some
of our brothers who might have fallen in
the trap now let's be real 21st century
absolutely you got true you know you
walk out the door you got half they're
dressed but they're not dressed and
brother Falls now and he's this becomes
like a disease we know people that have
been there and people that are there
right now what advice do you have for
them how do they get out of this
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trap what's better if the guy comes to
marry the daughter he's a doctor PhD but
he's missing the salad and his uh you
know faith is not that high he's like
what they call a Ramadan Muslim but he's
a
doctor for