Zena adultery and fornication does not
refer only to penetration rather there
is the zena of the hand which is
touching that which is forbidden and the
zena of the eyes which is looking at
that which is forbidden it is not
permissible for the Muslims to long for
the things that lead to Zena such as
kissing being alone touching and looking
all these things are Haram and lead to
the greater evil which is Zena Allah
says and do not approach unlawful sexual
intercourse indeed it is ever an IM
morality and is evil as a way looking at
that which is forbidden is one of the
arrows of the shitan which leads to a
person to Doom even if he did not do it
intentionally at first Allah says tell
the believing man to lower the Gaze from
looking at forbidden things and protect
their private parts from illegal sexual
acts that is purer for them verily Allah
is all aware of what they do and tell
the believing woman to lower their gaze
from looking at forbidden things and
protect their private parts from illegal
sexual acts think about how Allah
connects the issues of lowering the gays
with the issue of protecting the private
parts guarding one's Chastity in these
verses and how lowering the Gaze is
mentioned first before protecting the
private parts because the eyes
influences the heart porn addicts suffer
from a genuine mental emotional and
physical trap with a combination of
therapy internet filters affirmations
accountability and research it can be
overcome some people believe that porn
addiction is irreversible this is not
true the proof is many porn addicts have
given up on this evil
addiction the reversal process is done
by minimize all all possible roots to
viewing porn avoiding the behavior that
mimics pornography avoid surfing the
internet avoid fantasizing and avoid
friends which speak about porn the human
brain is designed to find the opposite
sex attractive so when porn presents
women in this way of course you will
have that dopamine rush so we need to
understand how we are able to be pulled
into this addiction the process being
used and what's taking place many people
with addictions have empty lives this
causes them to gravitate towards these
addictions but by having a complete
alternative you can challenge the
addictions Islam provides a holistic
framework to dealing with porn addiction
in which it develops our minds with the
intellect and knowledge that we have
been given we develop the body by
maintaining the balance in the body we
develop the Soul by the zik the
remembrance of Allah and reflection upon
Allah and his creation and our
accountability before the Creator and
being aware that our actions are being
accounted for and we develop positive
social networks through brother and
Sisterhood and through positive family
networks sincere repentance to Allah is
a complete reboot process because
because it replaces Pleasures with pain
you realize this was Disobedience to
Allah your pleasure is only to obey
Allah and your displeasure is to disobey
Allah the conditions of repentance are
number one you hate the sin and have a
revulsion for it abstain immediately
from the sin and do not delay the
repentance but act straight away number
two distance yourself and cut all
avenues to the things that will put you
back into sin I.E friends spending time
alone on your computer looking at things
that will lead you to pawn number three
the messure of Allah peace be upon him
said fear Allah Wherever You Are and
follow up a bad deed with a good deed
and it will wipe it out as the dopamine
feedback mechanism is based upon
Motivation by following up a bad deed
with a good deed this will create new
actions new activities new neurop
Pathways by putting positive things into
your brain this will wipe away the high
release of negative dopamine created by
watching porn and replacing it with
positive dopamine porn addicts watch
porn to feel good an overload of
dopamine release from watching porn
affects your motivation porn demotivates
you from doing any other thing and makes
you lose your self-esteem and confidence
so you only feel motivated when watching
porn everything else demotivates you so
as a result you have a low motivation
therapists describe this as a brain fog
the inability to think straight and
Allah describes this as hmer intoxicant
that which be fogs or clouds the mind
when you withdraw from watching porn you
will have the same symptoms as drugs and
alcohol withdrawal symptoms you have the
feeling that you want to go back your
brain is looking for that dopamine Rush
again so you need to fight that to do
this you need to create new neurop
Pathways in your brain when you stop
using neurop Pathways you lose them so
if you stop viewing porn then you will
stop using these neurop Pathways that
have been created from watchin porn but
they are still dorant so in order for
this to work you need to use the neurop
pathways by doing something else such as
a hobby like going to the gym eating
healthy Etc if you were a serious addict
then a good start would be to cut the
problems from the root by getting rid of
the internet connection from your
home take steps to keep your children
safe many teens watch porn on their
mobile phones research shows 9 out of 10
boys are exposed to pornography before
the age of 18 6 out of 10 girls are
exposed to pornography before the age of
18 71% of teens hide online behavior
from their parents 28% of 16 to 17 year
olds have been unintentionally exposed
to pornography online there is a variety
of software and methods available that
can filter out certain contents from the
internet before it gets them to your
computer here's a list of things that
you can do to protect yourselves and
your families number one install
Parental Control software on all of your
computers these are internet and web
protection filters that will block
pornography there are many free
softwares available for Android phones
tablet PCS laptops iPhones Etc make sure
you use a parental control software
which cannot be easily disabled many
come with a password which only the
parent should have simply search online
for Parental Control software we have
added a few links in the description of
this video number two ring your internet
service provider and tell them to block
pornography on your internet connection
number three on many wireless internet
Broadband hubs routers you are now able
to block pornography directly from the
unit by accessing the parental control
settings within the router or the Hub
this will stop anyone using your
wireless or wire connect ction to view
pornography simply ring your service
provider for further help number four
keep the computer in the family room
where it can be monitored number five
parents should have computer control by
having a password number six do not let
your children have access to unlimited
Broadband Wi-Fi on their mobile phones
on the tablets and on the personal
computer please note from country to
Country internet service providers and
mobile network Services differ with
support and help with configuring your
phones Broadband hubs and routers so you
may have to configure everything
yourself you can always get the help
from a local computer store protect your
families from being exposed to
pornography before it's too
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