the prophet s Al wasallam upon occasion
he was sitting with
the and he said through that door a man
will come who is destined for jenah and
they waited a while and came in and then
the next day the prophet s Al wasall was
sitting in the Masid and he said through
that door a man will enter who is
destined for Jenna and sad came in again
and then upon the third day he said
through that door a man will come in who
is destined for J and came in the
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game who was sitting next to the prophet
s wasallam he wanted to know what what
was the reason for S being destined for
Jenna so he made an excuse to remain in
the company
of and he's remain in his company for a
day and he's observing his worship
nothing
spectacular he worshiped like other
people do then he observes him the next
day nothing spectacular he worshiped
like the other sahaba do and he wor then
he observes him the third day and
there's nothing spectacular about his
worship and upon the third day he
mentions to S he says the reason I
accompany you for for 3 days was because
I heard the prophet sallallah alaihi
wasallam say this and I wanted to know
what was the reason for you being
destined for J and said This is My
Worship this is how I worship every day
nothing more nothing
less and
when was walking away then said one
thing does come to my mind it said one
thing comes to my mind and that is that
every night before I go to sleep
I forgive all those who transgress
against me Subhan Allah this is a man
who fought in the Battle of B this is a
man who fought in the battle oh this was
a man who defeated the superpower of of
his time but what is he being given
Jenna for forgiving other people
something that we regard as very trivial
you know you compare our state really
with the likes of
s compare our state with him that for
years will pass that we will be upset
with our brother with our sister with
our parents with our friends and we will
not even once ever think about forgiving
them years will pass and we not once
will we ever think let's forgive this
person why because we believe that if we
forgive other people if we humble
ourselves we will lose our is we will
lose our honor although the words of the
Prophet sallam are totally contrary to
the the prophet sallallah Al wasallam
said he said nothing happens to person
who forgives besides the fact that Allah
gives him more is he gives him more Isa
in this D and he gives him more Isa in
the Hereafter this happens but we will
not forgive because we think that if we
forgive other people and we will justify
our own wrongs you know every person
here analyze yourself that we transgress
the laws of Allah subhana tala every
single moments of our life 100 times a
day and we want Allah to forgive us
but we are not ready to forgive other
people but we are not ready to forgive
other people in the time of the Prophet
s wasallam when thef began to
slander some of the Muslims also became
embro in this and it was a person called
M and he was the family of Abu bak and
abak would actually spend on M cuz he
was a poor person and abak took an oath
that after today I will never spend on M
he took an
oath and then Allah revealed the verses
in the Quran that those who have to the
effect that those who have the ability
to spend on other people they should not
take Oaths then Allah
says they should forgive and they should
overlook do you not wish that Allah
forgive you and when these verses were F
abak he said indeed we want Allah to
forgive us and then he broke his old
oath and he took another oath that he
would never stop spending on M he would
never stop spending on M what was the
sin of M let me tell you the sin of M
was that he said that the wife of the
Prophet
s and the daughter of Abu Bakr was
having affair with another person but
you look at Abu Bakr when Allah reveals
the verses in the Quran even
abak he took an oath that he would never
stop spending on Mis
and mentions over his
eyes he said Allah will forgive you how
you forgive other
people Allah will forgive you how you
forgive other people so if you forgive
halfheartedly Allah will forgive you
halfheartedly and if you forgive and you
reconcile TI with Allah then Allah will
forgive you
accordingly the reality is that mine and
your state is the fact that we are not
ready to forgive other people this is
our our state because we believe that
our Isa will go although the words of
the Prophet sallallah alaihi wasallam
said that your Isa will
increase and the reality is that there
are many people that we have
transgressed over ourselves but we will
never say sorry to them we will never
ask them to forgive us the words of the
prophet are that if you oppressed a
person and that person makes a Dua to
Allah subhana tala that Dua goes
straight up to Allah subhana and really
we need to think about how we forgive
other people because how we forgive
other people Allah will forgive us and
this is a
reality do you not wish that Allah
forgive you every single person here
wants Allah to forgive them and
therefore we need to start forgiving
people you know if anybody has
transgressed against you look sad got
Jenna for forgiving other
people sad got Jenna for forgiving other
people and the way you will forgive
other people Allah will forgive you in
the time of H he had a servant and she
came in with a pot of
food when she came
to he
accidentally managed to drop that food
upon
H and there are a lot of people standing
there and H got upset and she was these
were people on knowledge and so she
recited the
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Ayah it's attribute of a believer that
when they are angry they stop the
aner and it became cool as a
CU then she
said the next part of the verse and they
forgive people
and he said I forgive
you and then she
said Allah loves those who do good Allah
loves those who do good and he said I
freed you he said I freed you and not
only did he free her there was a person
a noble person there he he gave him the
dowy to marry this
girl
see that Allah will forgive you the way
you forgive other people me you here
believe that if we forgive other people
our is that will go low isn't it we
humbl but the prophet
said that if a person forgives other
people Allah will increase his status by
Allah your status by Allah will increase
and Allah will put your in the people
which around you and not only that that
Allah will forgive you accordingly
Allah will forgive us accordingly
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