I will be covering chapter three in this
section inallah the the shik talks about
rulings related to clothing and
beautifications the first thing he
mentions is
prohibit and
permissibility are sole rights of Allah
subhana tala he said at the end of the
day we are Muslims we will submit to
Allah subhana wa tala this right is
Allah's right to make legislation for
his creation and to say this is allowed
and to say this is not allowed we are
owned by Allah subhana tala so the
rebellious attitude isn't the attitude
of a Muslim that's what differentiates
us that's what differentiates Muslims
and Islam from kuf that's what
differentiates jel from s from s jel
from that's what differentiat
um Adam Froman it's
basically submitting yourself to the
will of your lord to the will of Allah
subhana wa ta'ala for you to obey him
and respect him and honor him it's not
someone's opinion or logic or feeling
that one can make things Haram it's not
someone's personal I idea
or we should we have to make judgments
on what is halal and what is Haram from
evidence of the Quran and the Sunnah the
option for what is halal is so vast
there are many things that are Halal so
many things that the sheh mentioned that
that go falls under falls under what is
halal and what is Haram so why do we
have to have choices why do we have to
choose the Haram why do we have to fight
over the area of what is Haram why do we
have to doubt what is Haram why do we
have to defend it so choices and options
for beautification is so big so do we
have to why do we have to go to the
doubtful of and fight for it don't limit
yourself to what is Haram there are so
many things wearing makeup and doing
your hair is halal unless you are
deceiving unless you're doing it to
deceive someone and you change your look
just to make just to make yourself look
deceiving he gave the example where you
put so much makeup on and you dye your
hair and then when you take a shower you
you're you become a totally different
person uh person the intentions behind
the action will also determine whether
something's Halal or whether something
is Haram the default ruling about
clothing is that all is permissible
except what is prohibited by Shar a lot
of people think that it is Haram until
you find proof but no but no anything
you want to wear is halal unless there
is proof to say that it is Haram number
five one of the goals of Shar is to
cover and one of the goals of Shan is to
expose it the Shan was very angry that
Adam a new creation a new creation that
Allah subhana tala created was covered
he was veiled he was his was covered his
his private parts were covered and the
shitan was very angry the Shan his goal
at this point was to to expose the
of he knows that if they ate from that
tree that they will lose themselves the
respect that they had for themselves and
that they will be exposed they immed
they immediately started to cover
themselves from the leaves of the
tree number six the shik the shik
mentioned
mentioned that one of the goals of
sharia is to establish modesty and
morality in society one of the branches
of Iman is ha the morality of society
went downhill from back then to now
number seven the Sharia rules are
intended to help a person control his or
her desires and channel them from the
right direction not to be controlled by
them it is your right to want to feel
pretty but you shouldn't have this
control your your life you shouldn't
want the you shouldn't have this be the
priority something a priority in your
life make sure Society is not controll
controlled you controlling you make sure
you are in control of your desires make
sure you are in control of what you feel
is is a limit make sure you have a limit
to to how you're dressing number
seven the should oh we covered that
number eight of of the goals of Shar is
Beauty for Allah is beautiful and he
loves Beauty he loves to see you dressed
nicely but at the same time dressed
proper number nine the presence of
difficulty requires the allowances be
made to affect
ease if there is a certain situation
like a man working on his own to support
the family and there is trouble like
he's having trouble supporting the
family the woman then should work the
woman needs to work but so solutions for
mixing dressing Etc should be sought out
because anyway she will she will be
mixing if she gets into um if she
becomes into the workforce if she gets
into the workforce she will be mixing
she will be but she needs to be proper
and she needs to be modest number 10 one
must not imitate non-believers or
evildoers um f in what what is known to
be specific to them imitation on the
exterior level level often affects the
interior a sister cannot wear like a a
nun they they shouldn't wear crosses
they shouldn't have like so many
piercings like the the the way they they
can they are allowed to have piercings
but piercings like the way um the me
like the the where it's like too much or
um or tattoos Etc like stuff like this
we uh we should be more modest we should
be more unique in what we wear than how
to like to make ourselves look like
the the prophet sallallahu alaihi
wasallam saw two red garments on
Abdullah so he said to him this is among
the dress of the non-believers so take
it off
number 11 a woman must not imitate what
is specific to males and vice versa so
for example their haircuts um maybe a
sister wearing a kofy that that
shouldn't you shouldn't you're not
allowed to wear that we shouldn't wear
that or a tie the Sheik said that if
it's uniform purposes it's fine but if
it's if you're going out just for fun or
something like that we shouldn't we
should not dress as the way a man
dresses
number 12 common culture is a reference
as long as it is within a guideline of
Shar cultures can be different from from
one place to
another um spending too much is r on
certain things this is required to be a
cult this is referred to the culture of
the people he said that spending too
much like for example a person who makes
like $40,000 a year and he goes to a
hotel that's like $11,000 a night that's
something that's he's not he cannot
afford but a person who makes $100,000
$200,000 and he goes to make he goes to
a hotel that cost $1,000 a night that's
in his budget he can afford it so if you
can afford it that he said it it's fine
but if you can't afford it you really
can't do it um number 13 the Sharia came
with rulings to block the means of Haram
closing the door against possibility of
committing illegal things sometimes a
permissible act may be forbidden by law
because it leads or may most probably
lead to illegal actions he said this
doesn't mean that we close every door
that everything is Haram it just means
that certain things are going to be
Haram because it's going to lead to we
should close the door on it because it's
going to lead to Haram he said if you're
on the edge then like you're going to
fall so um the Shar law prohibits some
things that that's going to lead to the
Haram
so eat and drink and dress and give in
charity without excessiveness or
arrogance that's one of the um
statements that the Sheikh mentioned
number 15 wasting time is prohibited in
the sh wasting time like two taking two
hours in the shower it was like that's
that's wasting so much time of your day
that's wasting two whole hours of your
day Allah subhana T
said he swears by the time and the fact
that he that it is wasted the Sheik said
every heartbeat you have tells you you
are a collection of seconds and
minutes hijab was made obl obligatory
upon the believing woman once they
reached the age of puberty he said hijab
is a must you must wear the hijab he
said stating this
aah he said needs a strong Ean the M the
sisters who
have who are M who are strong Believers
so Allah called on a believing woman
he's um he said because it takes a lot
of Iman for a Muslim sister to wear the
hijab it it's takes a lot for a Muslim
sister to wear the hijab it's not easy
for a Muslim sister to
cover so they they used to not cover
back in the old days but when this aah
came down they used to they started
covering more modestly and they they
started
covering they used to drape the scarf on
their heads and Allah said to um Allah
said to roll it over their shoulders to
cover their neck and hair cuz they used
to only wear it like drape the scarf
over their heads but that still showed a
lot of beauty so Allah um Allah came uh
revealed another aah to the prophet
stating that they should wear and they
should uh wrap their garments um wrap
their garments over their shoulders and
cover their necks and their
hairs
uh slave they were not obligated the
slave women were not obl to cover he
said because the slave women were always
working and that they they were it was a
really hot so they weren't obligated to
cover non-muslims did did not cover so
Muslim women were then able to be
recognized the prophet's family is fully
covered the prophet sallallahu alaihi
wasallam said cursed be to the women
that do their eyebrows that pluck their
eyebrows and do
tattoos related that Abdullah said Allah
curses women who tattoo and are tattooed
women who pluck their eyebrows eyebrows
and women who file their teeth to make
gaps for beauty altering Allah's
creation he said that women in the old
days they used to file their teeth like
really sharp like shark teeth just to
differentiate themselves from the older
women because they wanted to look young
because they they wanted to have teeth
like the young the the children like how
children's teeth were so they used to
file their teeth so he said um Allah
subhana tala will curse those women who
beautify themselves in this way the
messenger sallallahu alaihi wasallam
cursed the woman who joins her on her
hair and the one who has it joined on
like for example extensions in this part
the Sheik said that extensions do to
like um extensions due to if if you're
bald he said it's the Haram he also said
that it the reason why some Scholars
believed it was Haram was because it was
the a human hair other human hair they
used to use human hair as extensions or
they used to use human hair as wigs and
human hair after it leaves the body is
NES in itself so he said that this is
the reason why some scholars believe is
is Haram to wear other people's hair but
he said artificial hair is it's fine
like it's no
nothing uh to get to the questions um
number one what is the of a woman in
front of another woman he said from the
naval to the knee majority says from the
naval to the knee but Imam Ahmed says no
must cover more than that they must
cover a little more than that um what is
the in front of male relatives be modest
in clothing even if he's
Muslim even if he's Muslim do I have to
wear number three do I have to wear a
Jil Ora is it okay to wear a skirt or
pants with long shirt or jacket is
dressing in in share CES sufficient you
need
to you need to meet the conditions of
hijab nothing specific pants are okay
but not too tight and
defining um number four does hijab have
to be black or a dark color no um Sala
said after the lecture of hijab all
women wore black but that was just the
culture of back then but he also gave
many examples that people that people in
the back back in the day they used to
wear um red or they used to wear color
and he gave any proof to that that we're
not limited to wearing just black we're
we're limited to wearing what is
culturally accepted in society one of
the conditions of hijab is that clothing
is not an attraction in and of it itself
what is considered inherent beauty or
attraction is it okay if it is glittery
is it okay if it matches in the color of
and style yes there are evidences that
show the women used to dress in that way
they used to dress in
color he said also something that is
culturally
accepted number six can I remove
hijab my hijab in front of a
non-muslim No I um well no proof that
diff that differentiate between Muslim
women and non-muslim women AB said not
to uncover in front of non-muslim women
non-muslim women specifically talking
about the midwives public baths not for
hijabs not for
hijab said no difference between any
woman Jew Christian Muslim a non-muslim
can describe the the Muslim girl to a
man but we should educate them tell them
that that's the point we can't describe
ourselves to them we can't show them our
Beauty we can't let them know how we
look seven can I address according to
the the latest
fashion he said yes but don't just
blindly imitate them he said no Victoria
Secret cataloges because they show too
much a they
maybe if you want to look at the the
some pictures that women maybe if you
want to look at magazines that cover the
women's AA then that's fine but don't
try not to look at Women's um laundre
magazines because they usually uncover
the A and they usually are free too free
with that number eight can I wear
clothing made of animal leather or fur
he said if it is not from real animal
skin he said some say um that if you die
if they if you die the skin it is okay
except Pig he said sometimes footballs
are made from pig skin or there are many
things that made from pig skin but try
not try to keep away from it he said any
skin can be purified if you dye it so if
you dye the animal hair if you dye the
animal skin then you you it will be
purified number nine can I wear makeup
in public what is the rule about
and if it gets you affli uh attractions
if it's too attracting then stay away
from it he gave many stories on um how
women back in the day used to wear H as
Beauty and he said said that's fine he
said also if it's too much if it's so
noticeable then try to stay away from it
but if it's going to fit in if it looks
natural he said it is allowed to work he
also gave the he he also gave an example
that if you're a single woman a single
woman who is looking to get married it
is fine he he gave an example one woman
who came and she dressed beautifully she
wore new clothes she wore she beautified
herself and she left her house and one
of the sahabah told
her he wasn't worried about the fact
that she beautified herself he was
worried about the fact if she finished
her days yet or not so it he this just
proves that beautifying yourself
verifying who you are is not
Haram
um number 10 the ruling what is the
ruling regarding going out in high heels
he says if your intention is to get
attention and seduce guys then no but if
your shoes just make noise on their own
it is okay because every shoe makes
noise in its own way number 11 is
dressing in traditional Chinese Japanese
Native American Etc clothing considered
imitation it is not specific to them
nothing to do with religion it has
nothing to do with religion so it is not
specific to them so so it is okay number
12 what is the ruling regarding wearing
jewelry that was originally associated
with Pagan beliefs he said we should try
to avoid it unless it is not looked at
like that anymore um Tradition now
cultural nowadays it's not looked as it
anymore so it is but we should try to
avoid it number 13 what is the ruling
regarding wearing clothing that has MA
images or crosses he says some say if it
is part of the image the cross is um if
it is part of the image the cross is
okay but it it is not allowed if the
image is part of clothing Furniture Etc
then it is fine number 14 am I allowed
to buy clothes that I don't need he said
yes you're allowed IM Malik had about
100 pairs of
shoes number 15 what is the ruling
regarding wearing unisex clothing it is
okay what is is it permissible to wear
shorts or swimming suits at girls pool
parties he said um refer back to the one
with the he said that if it is covering
from your navl to your knee that it is
um fine but if it is showing any part of
your auto then it is not fine number 17
are bikinis allowed in public can I swim
with my clothes on he said yes you can
can wear um you can wear B burkinis you
can wear them they're islamically
appropriate they're they are fine the
problem he said with Islamic with the
with women going to beaches or pools is
and they go in with their clothes on is
when they come out their their clothes
are they be it becomes tight he said
that if you want to go to a beach or
something try to get a towel with you so
you could cover yourself right away wrap
yourself right away because your clothes
are a little tight so when you come out
of the beach or the when you come out of
the water so if you can do that if it's
fine number 18 is it permissible to
dress in a way specific of evildoers for
six in front of my husband only he said
yes because there is no imitation here
he said that if you want to wear like a
a belly dancing outfit he gave an
example he said that this woman she's
doing it in front of men that are
strangers to her but you're doing it in
front of you're doing something in front
of your husband and he said that your
husband there's no limitation on what
your husband can see number 19 what is
the ruling regarding wearing simple
jewelry that can be seen such as ring a
nose ring um a ring or a necklace over
my ABA he said Scholars say that you're
only supposed to wear these in front of
women and Mah but small simple jewelry
is fine 20 is allow is it allowed to
purchase gold or silver with a credit
card he said no it's not allowed it's
h number 21 is it it is a is it allowed
to wear a nose ring or get a naval
piercing or piercing in any other area
of the of the body can I wear more than
one
earring as many you want in the ear it's
not prohibited it's not Haram but it is
not
recommended but we can
but it can be imitation so try not to um
overdo it like he said because we could
be imitating theur number 22 what is the
ruling on colored ey lenses he said it
is permissible you are allowed to wear
it number 23 he said and and number 22
he said that there he colored ey lenses
just gives you a color the man doesn't
know what whether your eyes are black
blue gray or orange he said that as soon
as you take it off there's another color
in your eyes so he said what's the
difference he said it's permissible he
said number 23 is it permissible to
bleach my eyebrows he said yes it is not
the same as plucking them it's not the
same as plucking them number 24 can I
remove the hair above my nose that
connects my eyebrows he said yes the
eyebrows are just are just over the eye
um it's so the nose between the nose
it's not part of the eyebrow that's just
facial
hair number 25 what is the ruling
regarding fake eyelashes or fake nails
he said it is allowed if it is not force
deduction deceiving or bad intentions
nails are permissible if it is very if
it is not very noticeable number 26 what
is the ruling regarding cosmetic Destry
he said it is permiss
but not when change and um but not when
it it's changed the way it looks like
braces are k um braces are okay filing
teeth no they're not
okay what is the ruling regarding using
food for external skin care he said yes
you can he gave the he gave um an
example that Allah subhana T provided um
everything in the world for you for your
benefit number 28 what is the ring
regarding cosmetic surgery he said
cosmetic surgery to make you beautiful
is not allowed it is allowed with
conditions if she needs it uh if she
needs it you don't change Allah you
can't change Allah's
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creation this is not is it allowed to
get a tattoo what if it is
removable he said that if it is the
removable that's fine that's like H
tattoo but if it is not removable you
are not allowed to get a t a permanent
tattoo because it changes Allah's
creation you are not um we are not this
our bodies are mana and we have to
return them the way Allah subh created
us number 30 if I have a tattoo from
before Islam what should I do he said
keep it if you can remove it if you
can't just keep
it is number 31 is it permissible to use
the products from the Dead Sea he said
yes number 32 can I cut my hair short he
said yes but not like a man number 33
can I put my hair according to the trend
or get a haircut that celebrity has he
said if you do it because of how much
you love that person then no but
otherwise it is okay because if you like
the haircut you think it's a nice
haircut then it's permissible but if you
adore and you're getting it just because
you love this person so much he said no
number 34 what is the ruling regarding
wearing wigs what is what if it is for
my husband because illness he said no
human hair but sin but synthetic yes for
illnesses yes 35 are there any
restrictions regarding dying the hair he
said no even black is allowed for women
number 36 what is the ruling on hair
extensions he said to beautify yourself
for your husband's synthetic hair is
okay it's fine but real human hair he
said it's Nas so it's not okay number 37
can I pluck my eyebrows if this pleases
my husband he said some say that yes
because it is not deceiving but the
Hadith is pretty clear and
straightforward number 38 what is the
ruling regarding removing your hair or
on arms and legs nothing was mentioned
to for it to be forbidden he said it's
also cleanliness number 39 what is the
ruling on laser laser hair removal he
said yes it's permissible number 40 is
there a specific way that the underarm
or pubic hair must be removed he said
any way you
want number 41 can I work as a
beautification hair stylist yes but
stick with the
condition of um stick with the
conditions of Islam like you you are not
allowed to um wax uh or look at the of
other women so there are many conditions
in Islam that we you you're allowed to
he said um it's actually recommended
because you're helping sisters you're
helping women be beautiful but um if
it's going to come to the Haram try to
stay away from doing the Haram number 42
can I have some someone else help me
remove my hair from my body he said arms
and legs yes but no the anywhere near
the it's
prohibited number 43 can we have a
community fashion show it was like have
your own identity be creative don't
imitate the and don't show and this is
the end of chapter 3 um