alhamdulillah I'm abuba I'm here at
Eddie's and I'm going to give him a
whooping he never is going to forget you
watch him show some things where's he at
he's hiding from
me alhamdulillah peace be unto you we
have an exciting show for you today it's
very difficult a lot of times the r race
of life you got so many things
distracting you people calling you to go
to the nightclubs you got promiscuity
all over the place but you know what
there's something missing in your life
you don't have peace you don't have
contentment the dollar is not giving it
to you you're running from boy to boy
girl to girl you know you're just dating
and all this other stuff but you know
something is there in your heart and you
want to change you know that look
there's no other than the one God the
one God who created this whole universe
and everything in it and he's got a
system a plan but you away from the game
plan because there's a lot of
distraction we're going to be talking
about somebody distractions and how you
can get more serious because death is a
reality we're all going to die it can
happen today it can happen tomorrow it
can happen after the show is finished so
we really have to take the matter
seriously but we know it's difficult
it's a Jihad it's a struggle to be good
to develop yourself to be the best human
being so we're going to get some advice
from our next guest shik Abu Toba sit
tight we'll be right
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the is the assalam alikum peace be unto
you
thank you thank you very much for
finding time be with us here on the
Deans show people go to show.com to read
a little bit about you and to see some
of the other shows that we've done with
you but wasting no time time is short
time is short and the matter is serious
you know we get a lot of emails and and
and people want to change you know they
watch some of the shows and they come
from other ways of life and they see
these things you know they don't make
sense God being a man Trinity 3 And1
someone ding from them sins God
committing suicide you know or they feel
like you know what I didn't believe in
God but my nature telling me there is a
God but you know when when the going
gets tough then they get going but then
when the the new girlfriend pops up or
they get invited to the party and they
start to talk about these serious things
not the cool
thing money fast cars
distractions so we want to help to give
some encouragement you know how can
people really take this matter seriously
and to get on the ball because Islam is
something rational it's logical if you
take the time you'll see that this can
come from no other than the creator of
the heavens and earth and some people
have even acknowledged this but they're
having a hard time submitting and doing
all the good things that God Almighty
has told them to do because they got
other things on their mind the guy can't
let go the girl the girl can't let go to
God they don't want to get married they
doing it test drive style so how can we
give some real advice talk to us talk to
us please
alhamd I was listening to you and
you have a good description of what's
going on out
there but the person first should be
patient with himself you know and we
should be patient with each
other Allah's messenger
says there is not a believing slave
except that he commits a
sin time after time again or he commits
a particular sin and he never stops
doing that sin until he leaves this dun
the fact of the matter is that Allah
created man sinful and
forgetful when he's reminded he
remembers and this is in the Quran where
Allah subhanahu waala
says I'm making in the earth aifa a
deputy the angel
said are you going to put something in
the earth you going to put someone in
the earth who's going to cause
corruption and spill blood so the the
intrinsic
nature of man is to be mistaken and
cause corruption and do things wrong so
when he realizes that either when he's
reminded though he remembers you know
and that's what we have to first and
foremost understand that we will fail
when we take shahada we say I swear in
the children's poem called children's f
it says I swear to do Allah's command
and not to do one thing Haram that's
what we say in the poem teaching the
children how to you know understand
their their F and that's what everybody
says I swear to do Allah's command and
not to do one thing Haram but when I
fail I will
repent before I get a punishment from up
above Allah most high before my soul is
caused to die so the thir first thing
that we tell the individual is that you
will make mistakes as a human you're
going to make mistakes however don't be
wrong and strong repent as soon as you
realize you're making a mistake turn to
Allah and repent don't be like those
people saying no it's not halow to say I
will repent maybe one day for those who
think like that will find the devil has
possessed his mind he plans to drop his
soul in Hell turn to Allah to break his
spell
say that's all the Muslim has to say so
I'm not going to approach it first by
saying you're not going to do any wrong
you're going to do wrong you're going to
fall victim to your ego and your desires
sometime so since that's the case have
we been left like that no we've been
taught how to respond when we made a
mistake and that's through repentance
repent to Allah
and I seek the Forgiveness of
Allah and I turn back to Allah and
recognize that I'm the slave of Allah
because that's that's the original thing
that we recognize that we're the slaves
of Allah we're not talking about someone
who doesn't know this we're talking
about someone who knows this so this is
the case we have to repent and after we
recognize that that we're going to fail
and then we're going to repent but we
just need the reminder and that the
reminder benefits in
that the reminder benefits the Believers
then we do what the advice of the
Prophet said he said be around those who
make you shy okay stick with those
people that make you feel shy to do
those things why don't you go and make
you know Zena with your girlfriend on
the
mimar because you know that the people
are going to stop you physically so then
you need if you're feeling these
feelings and these are not unnatural
feelings you know then you need to stick
and be around those people that are
going to make you feel shy and we can
talk further about other things that
people can do to distract them from
these distractions because Allah
says you know getting a lot of things
accomplishing a lot of things distracts
us
yeah until we visit the graves so you
know the way that we people are
distracted look at the beautiful Skyline
this is a whole real and it'll distract
us going out to this place and going out
to that place but we play a role in our
own destruction because we are attracted
to these things and these things keep us
from focusing on the real deal what's
the real deal the real deal is that we
are living in a temporary situation that
eventually is going to end and then the
real situation the longlasting situation
is going to become our reality and
and so we're not told to live and not
have fun there are lots of things we can
have fun with but we're only been told
to stay away from those things that's
going to harm us in this world and in
the Hereafter so these things like
someone quate like Haram are harmful
things things that are prohibited and
that's God's law because God knows best
Allah knows best is that right right so
these things are bad for us anyway like
you know okay you have a natural desire
to want to be with a man a woman want to
be a man want to be with a woman and a
woman want to be with the man but not
outside of marriage so if you have this
this this desire it's not something
unnatural but now to go and sleep around
with someone who's not your wife or your
husband you don't want to do that listen
Allah subhah wa says in
the Allah says that he made men desire
women and made women desirous and men
want and and lust after these women you
know however so the desire for a man to
be with a woman and a woman to be with a
man is in the Quran yeah so it's a
natural desire a lawful desire however
you're not supposed to fulfill that
desire except through certain ways like
you're hungry right you don't eat with
your foot you don't stick it in your ear
or in your eye or up your nose cuz it
doesn't help that way yeah you put it in
your mouth and you chew it and you cook
the food before you eat it you have to
marry the lady before you can be with
her and she has to marry the man before
they can be together other otherwise
you're going to get sick just like if
you eat the raw meat and the raw food
without cooking it or cleaning it and
doing the things that are supposed to be
done before you eat we can understand
that we need to understand it in the
metaphysical world as well yeah you know
let's take a break and we'll be right
back with more here on the dean show I
just want to say very simple message
main one of the beautiful things about
our religion of Islam is the emphasis on
Direct ritual and prayer to God directly
there is no intermediary the lights will
go on after the party and the party will
end it's very simple and very clear
there are no superstitious rituals no
strange incantations time is running out
we might not make it till tomorrow and
this is something that we need to think
about back here on the dean show and
we're talking to sh Abu Toba and living
in the real world we got real situations
tough you got a lot of fitna a lot of
Trials a lot of tests you got a lot of
things tantalizing you calling you and
it's say sometimes you're burning up
inside and so we want to give some some
some some good advice so you mentioned
marriage get married if you're feeling
this now could someone you mention how
merciful alad the loving God that we
worship you know Allah he's most
merciful and there's always hope you
started off with that can someone use
that as an excuse when they know that
fornication adultery this is something
that is not acceptable in Islam it's a
major sin because someone used that now
they know that and then they go commit
the crime in their s their head well
God's most merciful he'll forgive me
because he's full of rahma he's full of
mercy and then they go and do that
continue to do it not lowering their
gaze and then acting upon these desires
what do you got to say about that okay
what I say about this is that as Muslims
we have to recognize and understand the
purpose of life the purpose of
life Allah said I have not created the
Genies or the humans for any other
purpose except for to worship me right
then after that Allah tells us a story
of of Adam and the Shan and how the Shan
is jealous big jealous of the human
being that he was given this position
that the human really doesn't understand
how he gotten and Shan feels he deserves
it more so then Allah
says he says I am testing you so then we
realize after understanding that we're
here to worship Allah that this whole
life is just a test Allah
says Allah says are does man think he's
going to be left alone on just his
statement that he believes in Allah and
he's not going to be tested Allah said
we have tested those that came before
and we're going to make it clear those
people who are truthful to their pledge
their oath and those who are liars you
know and then not going to be truthful
so that's the the one aspect of it that
you can't you're not going to get away
with saying okay Allah is merciful but
he's testing you and if you fail the
test then you open yourself up to the
punishment or the the the the the
results of failing the test and you're
being tested daily and he told us how by
by your desires okay so you repent to
Allah and you try and strive your best
to move forward you know as we said
again in the children's poem
repentance will not be correct until I'm
sad and feel regret for what I've done
and I declare not to do that sin again
repentance will not be correct until I'm
sad and feel regret for what I've done
and I declare not to do that sin again
and if still sinning I must stop all
sinful Deeds right on the spot you know
and so that's that's the the the the
conditions that a person has to have for
um making repentance but let's look at
at another angle okay we don't want to
just be you know responsive we want to
be proactive Islam does not say you
can't get married Islam does not say you
can't like girls and you can't have fun
you want a woman go get married that's a
protection for you you know get married
Allah's messenger Pro promoted it get
married have a lots of children this is
the thing and and you know if you strive
of course the man has to be able to take
care of his family there's other other
things he can do too with his time the
Quran is the most important book in the
world we say you know the
most the most important and the best
speech is the speech of Allah in the
Quran so anything you want to learn is
in the Quran instead of watching a 30
minute sitcom where you you know it's
corny you know it's going to happen it's
basically wasting your time and
distracting you you can sit down for
that thir 30 minutes and memorize three
lines or five lines of Quran and that
will not only help you in this world
protect you from what's going on it's a
lot of fun because now you know
something that you didn't know before
and it'll be something that you can use
in Hereafter also you can learn how to
fight a lot of guys nowadays you know
you have the MMA the what is it mil
Muslim mixed martial arts mixed martial
arts you know so you can get involved in
some sports Not Just Sports but
positive Sports you know just going out
and I'm not saying basketball is bad but
if someone jumps out to beat you up
especially nowadays with all the Islamic
phobia and everything like that you need
you want to get a wife you better learn
how to protect your wife you know you
want to be Muslim you better know how to
fight and the prophet wasallam he
promoted us learning how to fight and
how to defend ourselves not to be
bullies but so not to get bullied
there's a lot of bullies so we don't
want to get bullied so hands off you
have no right to touch me and now you
have a right to defend yourself it's a
god-given right it is a God given right
and it's a lot of fun it's a lot of fun
for brothers to learn how to wrestle and
even sisters to learn how to fight and
protect themselves we hear about things
girls getting their pulled off and they
can know how to protect themselves just
so they can get away we're not promoting
women fighting guys in the street or
anything like that so this would be
something where now you can do something
positive you can get involved in okay
the study circles be around like you
said righteous people people who make
you feel shy go feed people there the
ways to Allah are many a guy came to
Imam Malik and he said you know what you
run your mouth too much and Imam Malik
was a famous scholar he said you talk
too much Imam Malik you always giv
classes and sometimes you're wrong you
come back and you change your decision
and IM Malik responded saying the ways
to Allah are
many is wide and smooth some people get
there by fasting some people get there
by giving charity some people get there
by cleaning the Masjid some people get
there by doing all this so many
different things by offering Salah you
know some people go there by teaching
and I'm pleased with the way that Allah
made easy for me so I'm suggesting to
young people and old people and people
in general you can learn how to fight
you know and if you don't like fighting
then you can go out and get some food
you like cooking and go give food to the
poor you me yeah so you can feed the
poor you mean fighting like martial arts
I mean martial arts like a self-defense
right like martial arts you know like
like I I know martial arts I I heard you
know martial arts but I don't I don't
know about that yeah yeah we I I like
see it for myself you know I like to
take you down in fact I challenge you oh
really I challenge you right now let's
go and fight so we can see who's the
best right here oh you know so we got a
challenge the challenge I'm dropping the
gauntlet hey your Martial Arts is no
good H you must be ready to die we're
going to have to take a break and see uh
What uh corresponds from here we're
going to have to maybe uh right now on
the dean show we're going to have some
fun more phone abuta and sit tight and
for uh the upcoming challenge you stay
tuned he 18in biceps we'll see what
happens to Eddie on The Dean
show on the outside everything looks
good you see the $100,000 cards you see
a lot of diamonds you see a lot of
females and they think that this is you
know this is the life this is this is
like you know Paradise right here on
Earth it's not anyone's job to go into
someone's heart and change their heart
your job is to tell people what the
truth is and the reality of it is while
we're sitting here while I'm sitting
here constantly paying for the disease
was when Eddie gets here I'm to kick him
in beat boxing man what you make all
those sounds with your mouth yeah do
another one for me let me try
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something I'm a Muslim boy I got MB pred
on my ring I sing for my Muslim boys and
my sisters doing their thing for the
sake of him Allah when I'm in need of
anything I turn to him Allah success is
what he brings oh Muslim boy I got MV on
my ring I sing for my Muslim boys and my
sisters doing their thing for the sake
of him Allah when I'm in need of
anything I turn to him Allah success is
what he brings oh Muslim Bel from South
London they don't even know what it
means it's too real for them I'mma put
it on and Fick for a reason they need to
start thanking Allah for the air they're
breathing don't diss me back that's a
waste of time I'm already submitting I'm
already on a straight line I'm already
repenting for spitting foul lines
already planning to quit rapping bro I
got mine don't worry about me worry
about you I'm in a last Army still of a
little crew heci to record labels assign
to Allah I'm worshiping God you're still
worshiping your car bro I'm a Muslim you
don't know what you are just a lost
clown on the road trying to be a star
screaming out real talking a little
boy's game you need to get serious start
using your brain don't what a he about
your life how you grew and all your pain
how you draw your four five Co it back
and let it rain I all of that before bro
it's time for something new I know you
gu the you just like I'm guing
you see what he does grab from
behind sisters doing their thing for the
sake of him Allah when I'm in need of
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so what would you do this KN what you do
I got you H so now this is the guard
position so now I have all my my four
Limbs and from here I can snap the arm
arm lock very
nice what if he goes like this from here
I can also lock a triangle and from here
suffocate the
guy you all right yeah I love you
brother yeah but I'm going to kill
you tune in every week for de show with
Eddie back here on the dean show so what
do you think did you did you have a good
time was it fun oh man ald I had a great
time ald I was going easy on you though
because I didn't want to you know bass
you on your own
show I had a great time alhamd
and that's I hope that the people get to
see everything all the fun that we had
and the things they can do and I hope
people come and learn definitely you
know we got to work up a sweat you know
you burn some calories you get in shape
and some of this negative energy
frustrations you know out there you get
to let it out in a positive way n alhamd
yeah and you learn how to defend
yourself Mah yeah so I learn how to
defend myself yeah so you I mean you've
been doing martial arts for for a long
time now uh you're also you know a black
belt is that correct yes sir
alhamdulillah people can now do Islam do
God's thing call it you know submit to
the one God and it's not boring is it
well Islam is a complete religion you
know complete religion and that's the
thing a way of life I should say you
know it is the religion of Abraham we
express ourselves in our way of life as
the the the dean of Islam submission
total submission and if somebody wants
to know what do you mean by the religion
of ibraim the religion of Abraham is
uprightness so we're upright individuals
staying on and practicing our way of
life of Islam submitting totally to
Allah and Allah's messenger taught us
that the only reason he
came so that we can perfect our
character you know so like I said I had
a great time I appreciate I like to come
back any time you like I really you know
I had a great time we love to have you
back before we we close up just a couple
more points so you mentioned Islam and
is this true that that's how when you do
this submission is that the only way
that you can truly have peace not cuz
people confused now you know a good time
they might have a good time some fun at
the nightclub but then they go home
crying because they got used and abused
or you know they spent all their money
and now they got a hangover and they
still ain't feeling that peace in their
heart is peace now by doing this
complete ad Heering submission to God's
will not your desires right
alhamdulillah I wish we have hope time
to finish this Islam is submission the
Shan he tricks the people and saying do
whatever you want and you'll find you'll
be fulfilled people want to get high
okay that high that euphoria that they
feel through submitting to Allah but
it's not to be found so they play the
music they dance everybody looks all
happy and everything but they're really
not happy you know the guy drinks the
beer the one guy who sued the company in
Texas he said I drank the beer it made
my breath stink it made me sick and I
didn't get any girls good case you know
what I'm saying because it's a lie but
this is the same thing that Shon he's a
great Advertiser but he never fulfills
on it the only way you will find true
peace and the word is Islam does not
mean peace it means submission surrender
surrender your ego Surrender Your Right
to your own decision to do whatever you
want and do what Allah has decided for
you to do and then through that route of
submission you'll find peace then you
got the peace right so it's acquired
peace acquired by the submission to the
one God not your desire don't just do it
don't just do it do what Allah wants you
to do and it's not Burger King have it
your way it's God's way you got to do it
God's way is it yes yeah yeah yes okay
so we covered a lot and we showed that
one Avenue of having fun you study you
want to be the best doctor the best
lawyer whatever it is and now you you
you you study the Quran the verb and
word of God we can have some fun we
showed one way get involved in the
martial arts learn how to defend
yourself and that's not waste of time is
it can that also be a act of worship it
is an act of worship you know the thing
with an intention a normal mundane act
becomes an act of worship yeah okay so
walking if you're walking to the Masid
because your intention is to go to the
mid it becomes a good act and a an act
of worship so when you're defending
yourself you're learning you're doing
these thing practicing so you can defend
yourself and protect your family from
harm this becomes an act of worship we
gave one example and I'm sure there's
some other things that we can talk about
we're out of time thank you may God
Almighty the Creator Allah reward you
thank you I mean we're good thank
you and we started with peace we end
with peace and remember what we said we
said look you're not going to get Peace
by going to the nightclub paycheck to
payche paycheck chasing the dollar
chasing the material world have this
world in your hand not in your heart
because when it's time to say bye-bye
when it's in your hand you can just let
it go but if you've attached yourself
and it's deep down in your heart and
that's all you're focus on is cash money
cash money club club party party at the
end you're going to lose this world and
you're going to lose the Hereafter and
you're going to die in a bad state in a
state where your lord is not pleased
with
you cuz you didn't prepare you chased
Your Lust and desires your whole life
and you didn't take life seriously you
didn't truly find out what the purpose
of life is and then you didn't live it
you lived according to your desires and
you didn't live according to God's will
Islam submission to the one God and
that's how you have peace that's how you
have peace worshiping the owner of peace
and not his creation we'll see you next
time God willing until then peace be
unto you
I seek Refuge with
Allah I seek Refuge with
Allah have mercy on
us obey your lord submit to him avoid
the danger of the major sins obey your
lord repent to him avoid the danger of
the major sins obey your lord surrender
to him avoid the danger of the major sin
obey your lord submit to him avoid the
danger of the major sins Stay
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Lord on us have mercy on our
soul
store the
wiers oh Lord Oh Lordy on have mercy on
our souls avoid the footsteps of Shan
who plotting scheme in
247 trickery deception falsehood lies
anything to keep you in the fire in line
he'll tell you you have to pray as if
everything depends on Allah and it does
but you must work as if everything
depends on you and it doesn't that's my
point you see what I'm saying and I like
that I don't like us sitting here what
are you waiting for what are we waiting
for right now what are you waiting for
all these people to come to Islam what
are we waiting for what are we waiting
for right now when they going to come
they're going to come Allah going to
bring these people Allah subhana put in
our hand the ability to do it now do
your
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