do you know that if you have bad
qualities most probably you got it from
your peers those you mixed with
sometimes they might even be your family
members sometimes even your parents
so if you have a bad quality you
probably got it from somewhere but you
didn't get it from allah you got it from
the devil that devil came to you in the
form of possibly most probably your
friends and your peers and sometimes
this devil comes in the form of your
best friend may allah protect us
sometimes the devil comes using the
mouth of
really someone who's very close to you
shaytaan is very sharp he's very
intelligent so sometimes the upbringing
in the home is very very good but the
school you send your child to they learn
an accent from that school which is
totally unacceptable they begin to speak
slang they begin to sway they begin to
cheat and steal all that is from the
school we need to be careful which
schools we send our children to we need
to be careful what type of friends our
children mix with and bigger than that
more important than that how what type
of people we mix with ourselves
regarding the one who did not have good
company
definitely on the day of qiyama they
will regret and say allah this person
whom i associated with my friend my
muslim body they made me forget you ya
allah and definitely shaytan was very
deceiving to me allah now let me inform
you when a person is smoking nine times
out of ten they've learned it from
people they mixed with when a person is
on drugs nine times out of ten it is
from people they associated with when a
person is an adulterer nine times out of
ten they've learned it from the company
they have when a person does not come
for salah nine times out of ten it is
because that is the trend around the
people they mix with when a person is an
alcoholic nine times out of ten it is
because those who are whom that he or
she is with is also like that when a
person has a bad mouth it's also the
same and that is why rehabilitation
is a waste of time if you yourself do
not want to help yourself
because i promise you
a person who's on drugs a person who's
an alcoholic a person who has any bad
habit it is up to you to change the
whole world can want to rehabilitate you
forever and ever but if that quality is
still in your heart it is a waste of
time and money for everybody to to be
worried about you may allah protect us
and this is why allah says if you want
to save yourself the first thing you
need to do
change your company totally totally
every one of them change them if you are
a bad person on drugs
cut out your whole friendship and the
parents of those who are on drugs let me
inform you extremely important you might
want to change the suburb and the city
you are living in in order to protect
your son or your daughter
you might want to go into a remote town
so that your children can abstain from
those they mixed with it will do you a
ton of good even though your income
might have decreased you you will save
your children
that's the important of the locality you
live in the importance of it and how
serious it is your suburb the area you
live in be careful make sure you choose
it properly you rather live in a slum
where the people around you all go to
the masjid and to live in a palace where
nobody talks about the house of allah
to protect us from evil company that is
one of the biggest plans of shaytan is
he comes to you through your company
your company your company and this is
why
we are taught when you want to know
someone don't look at them just look at
the people they mix with and close the
file that's it
we say this normally regarding marriage
you want to know a boy you want to know
a girl
more important than asking them about
themselves look at those they mix with
that's it close the file thereafter if
there are drunk cards they can turn
green in their faces telling you i've
never drunk they are lying
what are they doing with those i've
given an example and i want to repeat
this example
when you see fish in the ocean
you will notice the whale moves with all
other whales you will notice the little
breem move with other beams the snook
moves with snook the hake moves with
hake and so on amusing names of fish we
eat actually subhanallah
but you will never find one small fish
one big fish one other fish one hook
meaning one snook and one eight and so
on you won't find that
the reason is that is foolish they have
to have something in common to be moving
together the same applies to human
beings someone who's pious and someone
who's a drunkard they can't move
together really
it's like a sardine moving with a whale
allahu akbar
it can't happen one will devour the
other allahu akbar so this is why let
them not fool you when they tell you
look i'm not on drugs but the 10 guys
who i mix with they're all on drugs tell
him you are the boss
you are the main one don't lie may allah
subhanahu wa protect our offspring
remember those who are tested with drugs
it is up to you really to change
yourself no one else you need to develop
the willpower and you need to make a dua
to
allah may allah protect our offspring
from drugs
and may he protect our offspring from
all these bad habits wallahi they are
good people who lose their children just
because of their company